To the movies to see how well he did in his job.
To a casual dinner.
To the beach just expressing who you are to the guy.
Going to dinner at the most romantic restraunt, even if you hate it.
You make a joke to break the tense quietness.
Start telling him how amazing his work is.
Tell a story of one of the most embarassing that has happened to you.
Tell him how you had to leave the house at the age of 18.
You spill it all.
You laugh thinking its a joke.
You matter-of-factly state that you deal with things yourself and move on.
Say that your only fear is of him leaving you.
When they make fun of you stay strong to what you think.
Act the way think they want you to.
Just be yourself.
Be totally in love with him and the family.
"Sure do anything you like, Honey."
" Whatever, its not like I need you every moment of my life."
" Okay, I'm gonna go hang with some friends."
"Can I come,too."