Pursuer Or Withdrawer Quiz (Eft)

10 Questions | By Ntpuchalski | Last updated: May 11, 2022 | Total Attempts: 511

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When conflict arises in relationships, we tend to take the position of pursuing or the position of withdrawing. Find out which one you are (or confirm what you already know)!

Questions and Answers

1.

When my partner and I fight, I often end up yelling and accusing.
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
2.

When my partner and I fight, I need to get away, things get too intense!
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
3.

I freeze up during conflict with my partner.
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
4.

When in conflict, my internal dialogue is that "I need this to be resolved. I need to fix this now, not tomorrow!"
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
5.

I can be critical or demanding in times of conflict.
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
6.

I try to avoid conflict at all costs.
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
7.

I am an expert at avoiding my partner when he/she is upset.
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
8.

During fights, I tend to get quiet, but my insides are screaming!
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
9.

Even though our fight has ended, it often still feels unresolved to me.
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False
10.

When our fight has ended, it is difficult for me to revisit the topic that we were fighting about,
- A.
  
  True
- B.
  
  False

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