Quiz: Is Your Relationship Worth Saving?

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Quiz: Is Your Relationship Worth Saving?

Is your relationship worth the tears, or is it time to end it? Stay or go? ​ Knowing if a relationship can be saved or if it's time to walk away can be confusing and overwhelming! Is it worth putting forth some extra effort, or is it a lost cause? This test will help you to determine how to proceed.


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    When my partner is around, I usually feel...
    • A. 

      Good about myself, eager to be the best I can be.

    • B. 

      Lonely, as if I am just an accessory or unimportant.

    • C. 

      Good, I like being around my partner.

  • 2. 
    When we argue...
    • A. 

      One of us brings up many things from the past.

    • B. 

      I always end up being wrong.

    • C. 

      We yell and scream.

  • 3. 
    On our days off of work, we usually...
    • A. 

      Enjoy doing things together.

    • B. 

      Spend the time with other people.

    • C. 

      Argue about what we should do.

  • 4. 
    When it come to our long term goals...
    • A. 

      We have a plan and are working towards it together.

    • B. 

      We have no goals, we are just going day by day.

    • C. 

      We each have our own goals, they are different in some ways.

  • 5. 
    When it comes to our families...
    • A. 

      Generally we like spending time with them.

    • B. 

      My family hates my partner/ my partner's family hates me.

    • C. 

      We try not to spend too much time with them.

  • 6. 
    We have friends outside of the relationship but...
    • A. 

      We spend more time with my partner's friends than mine or we spend more time with my friends than my partners.

    • B. 

      They have their friends and I have mine, we spend time with friends apart from each other more often than not.

    • C. 

      We have a group of friends that we spend some time with.

  • 7. 
    When it comes to our finances...
    • A. 

      We have separate accounts and pay for our own bills individually.

    • B. 

      We have joint accounts and argue over how to spend or save often.

    • C. 

      We have joint accounts but I save more than my partner does/ or my partner saves more than I do.

  • 8. 
    When we are apart from each other...
    • A. 

      I worry that my partner may flirt or cheat.

    • B. 

      I don't worry about my partner cheating or flirting with others.

    • C. 

      It crosses my mind that my partner may cheat or flirt with others.

  • 9. 
    If a friend told my partner a secret:
    • A. 

      I would have to know what it was, and would bug my partner till he told me.

    • B. 

      I would ask about it, but respect my partner for not betraying his friend's trust.

    • C. 

      I would be bothered by it, as we are not supposed to keep secrets from each other.

  • 10. 
    When we are in public together...
    • A. 

      I feel proud to be with my partner.

    • B. 

      I feel like my partner should be proud to be with me.

    • C. 

      I find myself looking around at others, wondering if the grass is greener elsewhere.