Relationship Standards Test: What Do You Value In A Partner?
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Do you expect your date to always pay or split the bill?
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I always want them to pay!
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No, never! I don't want to trouble them.
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It's about balance. I would like to talk to my date properly about it.
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Not at all.
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You’ve been in a few relationships. Some felt like a spark, others fizzled fast and maybe a few just never should’ve started. You’ve caught yourself wondering: Are my standards too high? Too low? Do I even have a type, or am I just repeating old patterns? If these thoughts have crossed your mind, you're not alone. Many people enter relationships without a clear idea of what they expect or accept—and end up feeling confused, disappointed, or stuck.
That’s exactly where the Relationship Standards Test comes in. This quiz is designed to help you take a closer look at your current expectations no matter if you're exploring the men standards test, navigating women standards test challenges, or questioning the balance in your male and female standards test. By answering just a few thoughtful questions, you'll gain clarity on your dating benchmarks, understand whether you're setting realistic goals, and spot the red flags you may have overlooked.
Disclaimer: This test is for self-awareness purposes only. It is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a licensed counselor or therapist for relationship-related decisions.
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Would it bother you if your date is late without any explanation as to why they were late?
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Yes, it will bother me very much.
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No, it will not at all bother me.
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It will somewhat bother me, but I would like to hear them out.
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It will bother me, but I will not show it as I don't want them to feel uncomfortable.
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Do you mind if your date's appearance is unhygienic & unkempt on the first date?
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Yes, it's a deal-breaker for me.
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No, not at all.
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Yes, a little bit. They should be a bit clean and know how to carry themselves.
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No, appearances are completely irrelevant to me.
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Do you have a specific preference about your date's living situation, like if they are living with flatmates, parents, or alone?
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Yes, I am very peculiar about it.
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No, it doesn't concern me.
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It somewhat concerns me, but I will discuss it with them if it gets serious.
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I don't care about their way of living.
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Do you expect your date to be always financially stable and in complete control of their finances?
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Yes, absolutely.
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No, not at all.
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I don't know about it.
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Financial stability is essential, but it's a topic to be discussed when things get too serious.
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Would you go for a person if you consider them "too short," "too tall," "too tanned," etc.?
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Yes, I think so.
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Not at all, please.
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Attraction is important, but so does the personality.
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Never.
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Would you get completely turned off if your date looked completely different from their online presence?
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Yes, absolutely.
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Never.
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Maybe. I would need to talk to them properly about it.
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Not at all. I wouldn't want to cause them any inconvenience.
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On the first date, do you expect that you will get gifts and lots of appreciation?
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Yes, I expect it. Isn't it natural?
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No.
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Not at all.
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I don't think so.
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Would you get upset if your date didn't text you immediately after the date?
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Yes. I will be furious.
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No.
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I don't care about it.
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It's not that big a deal, but communication is essential.
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Would you avoid going with your date if their car is old-fashioned or in terrible condition?
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Yes, I will never talk to them again.
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No, not at all.
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I will be hesitant but I will give them a try once.
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I do not want to upset anyone, but I am not sure what I would do in this circumstance.
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How would you describe your approach to setting dating standards?
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I carefully analyze what aligns with my values.
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I ensure my expectations are realistic and balanced.
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I often go with the flow without thinking too much about it.
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I struggle to define what my dating standards should be.
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What is most important to you in a relationship?
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A partner who matches my uncompromising values.
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A healthy balance between my needs and my partner's qualities.
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Finding someone who is kind and easygoing, even if they don’t check all boxes.
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Someone who is available and shows interest in me.
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How do you feel about introspection regarding your dating preferences?
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It’s essential for defining and maintaining my values.
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It helps me ensure my standards remain balanced.
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I rarely think deeply about my dating preferences.
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I sometimes reflect but often rely on external advice.
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How do you view patience in the dating process?
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It’s key to finding someone who meets my high standards.
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It’s important to balance patience with realistic expectations.
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I don’t think much about patience; I just want to meet someone.
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I lack patience and often settle for what’s available.
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How do you respond to unsuccessful dating experiences?
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I reflect on whether the person aligned with my high standards.
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I reassess and adjust my expectations as needed.
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I don’t dwell on it and move on to the next person.
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I question if my standards were too low and vow to do better next time.
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