Relationships are full of ups and downs. You may be experiencing the downsides and are wondering if they are a signal that you should call it quits. The test below is designed to show you if the end is actually here. Give it a try and know where you stand.
Yes!
Somewhat, but I am confident in who I am and can assert myself.
No, I feel loved and accepted for who I am.
Yes, very much so.
Kind of, but we are not actively involved with each other's lives, but are interested and talk about it.
No, we are living separate lives. We eat and sleep together.
Very much so.
No, I am not sure how my partner's head works and find it difficult to understand him/her sometimes.
Sometimes my partner still does something that makes me feel that he/she is a stranger to me. It can be unnerving.
No, we are from different planets.
Yes, we have a lot of fun!
I don't always "get" his/her idea of fun, but we try to make it work.
Yes
No
I feel nervous when my partner handles money-matters.
Very much so.
Somewhat, but would rather have me spend all my spare time with them or at home.
No, it is always something to argue about.
Yes, my partner is always there for me.
No, if I'm not "up" my partner tends to avoid or criticize me.
My partner is not good with "down," but really tries to support me and be there for me.
No
Yes, we stand by each other through good and bad times.
Not sure. My partner will possibly not be able to cope with it.
Very much so.
A big part of me will feel relief, but I will also feel sad and hurt.
No.
Yes, it is great to be part of this family.
No, I avoid them at all cost.
I tolerate them and say and do the right things to keep the peace.
Mostly, but sometimes it is easier to ignore an issue to keep the peace. Arguments between us can be really bad.
Yes, we talk things though and find a solution or compromise.
No, arguments between us usually end very badly and cause a great deal of hurt and damage to our relationship.
We have a beautiful live to look forward to.
No, we don't agree on everything but will support each other as we go along.
No, not really.
No, it is a struggle.
Yes! Yes! Yes!
It's not always good, but I will stay in it to keep the relationship going.
No, I'm very low on his priority list.
Sometimes, but we tend to slack off in that aspect of our relationship.
Yes, I feel loved and cared for.
Yes, I'm home.
I tend to wish for more or I sometimes wish I could change this or that about my partner.
Not really, but this is my life now.