Quiz: I Wanna End My Relationship!

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Quiz: I Wanna End My Relationship!

Relationships are full of ups and downs. You may be experiencing the down sides and are wondering if they are a signal that you should call it quits. The test below is designed to show you if the end is actually here. Give it a try and know where you stand.


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Does your partner make you feel bad about yourself? Does your partner undermine your self-confidence? Does your partner break you down instead of building you up?
    • A. 

      Yes!

    • B. 

      Somewhat, but I am confident in who I am and can assert myself.

    • C. 

      No, I feel loved and accepted for who I am.

  • 2. 
    Do you take part in each other's lives and are you involved and interested in each other's activities and interests?
    • A. 

      Yes, very much so.

    • B. 

      Kind of, but we are not actively involved with each other's lives, but are interested and talk about it.

    • C. 

      No, we are living separate lives. We eat and sleep together.

  • 3. 
    Do you really know your partner? Do you know how he/she thinks and feels about things?
    • A. 

      Very much so.

    • B. 

      No, I am not sure how my partner's head works and find it difficult to understand him/her sometimes.

    • C. 

      Sometimes my partner still does something that makes me feel that he/she is a stranger to me. It can be unnerving.

  • 4. 
    Do you have fun together? Do you share a sense of humor? How much do you laugh together?
    • A. 

      No, we are from different planets.

    • B. 

      Yes, we have a lot of fun!

    • C. 

      I don't always "get" his/her idea of fun, but we try to make it work.

  • 5. 
    Do you feel financially safe? Do you trust your partner with your money? Is your partner financially responsible?
    • A. 

      Yes

    • B. 

      No

    • C. 

      I feel nervous when my partner handles money-matters.

  • 6. 
    Does your partner support your career? Does your partner encourage you to further your career or whatever you are busy with?
    • A. 

      Very much so.

    • B. 

      Somewhat, but would rather have me spend all my spare time with them or at home.

    • C. 

      No, it is always something to argue about.

  • 7. 
    Does your partner take care of you when you are feeling ill or when you feel a bit low about something? Does your partner support you emotionally?
    • A. 

      Yes, my partner is always there for me.

    • B. 

      No, if I'm not "up" my partner tends to avoid or criticize me.

    • C. 

      My partner is not good with "down," but really tries to support me and be there for me.

  • 8. 
    If you have an accident and lose a limb, will your partner support and care for you even if you are not whole anymore?
    • A. 

      No

    • B. 

      Yes, we stand by each other through good and bad times.

    • C. 

      Not sure. My partner will possibly not be able to cope with it.

  • 9. 
    If the relationship ends, will you feel relief and feel glad that you are away from it?
    • A. 

      Very much so.

    • B. 

      A big part of me will feel relief, but I will also feel sad and hurt.

    • C. 

      No.

  • 10. 
    How do you feel about each other's families? Do you get on and enjoy spending time with them?
    • A. 

      Yes, it is great to be part of this family.

    • B. 

      No, I avoid them at all cost.

    • C. 

      I tolerate them and say and do the right things to keep the peace.

  • 11. 
    Are you able to deal with conflict in a positive way? 
    • A. 

      Mostly, but sometimes it is easier to ignore an issue to keep the peace. Arguments between us can be really bad.

    • B. 

      Yes, we talk things though and find a solution or compromise.

    • C. 

      No, arguments between us usually end very badly and cause a great deal of hurt and damage to our relationship.

  • 12. 
    Do you share the same goals and values? Are you heading in the same direction?
    • A. 

      We have a beautiful live to look forward to.

    • B. 

      No, we don't agree on everything but will support each other as we go along.

    • C. 

      No, not really.

  • 13. 
    Do you feel sexually satisfied? Are your needs anticipated and met? Do you have a good sex life?
    • A. 

      No, it is a struggle.

    • B. 

      Yes! Yes! Yes!

    • C. 

      It's not always good, but I will stay in it to keep the relationship going.

  • 14. 
    Does your partner go out of his/her way to make you happy and do little things for you?
    • A. 

      No, I'm very low on his priority list.

    • B. 

      Sometimes, but we tend to slack off in that aspect of our relationship.

    • C. 

      Yes, I feel loved and cared for.

  • 15. 
    Do you feel happy and fulfilled?
    • A. 

      Yes, I'm home.

    • B. 

      I tend to wish for more or I sometimes wish I could change this or that about my partner.

    • C. 

      Not really, but this is my life now.