Quiz: I Wanna End My Relationship!
Relationships are full of ups and downs. You may be experiencing the down sides and are wondering if they are a signal that you should call it quits. The test below is designed to show you if the end is actually here. Give it a try and know where you stand.
- 1.Does your partner make you feel bad about yourself? Does your partner undermine your self-confidence? Does your partner break you down instead of building you up?
- A.
Yes!
- B.
Somewhat, but I am confident in who I am and can assert myself.
- C.
No, I feel loved and accepted for who I am.
- 2.Do you take part in each other's lives and are you involved and interested in each other's activities and interests?
- A.
Yes, very much so.
- B.
Kind of, but we are not actively involved with each other's lives, but are interested and talk about it.
- C.
No, we are living separate lives. We eat and sleep together.
- 3.Do you really know your partner? Do you know how he/she thinks and feels about things?
- A.
Very much so.
- B.
No, I am not sure how my partner's head works and find it difficult to understand him/her sometimes.
- C.
Sometimes my partner still does something that makes me feel that he/she is a stranger to me. It can be unnerving.
- 4.Do you have fun together? Do you share a sense of humor? How much do you laugh together?
- A.
No, we are from different planets.
- B.
Yes, we have a lot of fun!
- C.
I don't always "get" his/her idea of fun, but we try to make it work.
- 5.Do you feel financially safe? Do you trust your partner with your money? Is your partner financially responsible?
- A.
Yes
- B.
No
- C.
I feel nervous when my partner handles money-matters.
- 6.Does your partner support your career? Does your partner encourage you to further your career or whatever you are busy with?
- A.
Very much so.
- B.
Somewhat, but would rather have me spend all my spare time with them or at home.
- C.
No, it is always something to argue about.
- 7.Does your partner take care of you when you are feeling ill or when you feel a bit low about something? Does your partner support you emotionally?
- A.
Yes, my partner is always there for me.
- B.
No, if I'm not "up" my partner tends to avoid or criticize me.
- C.
My partner is not good with "down," but really tries to support me and be there for me.
- 8.If you have an accident and lose a limb, will your partner support and care for you even if you are not whole anymore?
- A.
No
- B.
Yes, we stand by each other through good and bad times.
- C.
Not sure. My partner will possibly not be able to cope with it.
- 9.If the relationship ends, will you feel relief and feel glad that you are away from it?
- A.
Very much so.
- B.
A big part of me will feel relief, but I will also feel sad and hurt.
- C.
No.
- 10.How do you feel about each other's families? Do you get on and enjoy spending time with them?
- A.
Yes, it is great to be part of this family.
- B.
No, I avoid them at all cost.
- C.
I tolerate them and say and do the right things to keep the peace.
- 11.Are you able to deal with conflict in a positive way?
- A.
Mostly, but sometimes it is easier to ignore an issue to keep the peace. Arguments between us can be really bad.
- B.
Yes, we talk things though and find a solution or compromise.
- C.
No, arguments between us usually end very badly and cause a great deal of hurt and damage to our relationship.
- 12.Do you share the same goals and values? Are you heading in the same direction?
- A.
We have a beautiful live to look forward to.
- B.
No, we don't agree on everything but will support each other as we go along.
- C.
No, not really.
- 13.Do you feel sexually satisfied? Are your needs anticipated and met? Do you have a good sex life?
- A.
No, it is a struggle.
- B.
Yes! Yes! Yes!
- C.
It's not always good, but I will stay in it to keep the relationship going.
- 14.Does your partner go out of his/her way to make you happy and do little things for you?
- A.
No, I'm very low on his priority list.
- B.
Sometimes, but we tend to slack off in that aspect of our relationship.
- C.
Yes, I feel loved and cared for.
- 15.Do you feel happy and fulfilled?
- A.
Yes, I'm home.
- B.
I tend to wish for more or I sometimes wish I could change this or that about my partner.
- C.
Not really, but this is my life now.
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