Ambushing
Insulated listening
Stage hogging
Pseudolistening
Signal listening
Linear communication
Insensitive listening
Selective perception
Defensive behavior
Feedback
We hear so many verbal messages.
We are often wrapped up in personal concerns
We comprehend words at a slower rate than people speak them.
We have many physical distractions
We think speaking has more advantages than listening.
Pseudolistening
Selective listening
Defensive listening
Insensitive listening
Fake listening
You can clarify your partner's concerns
You can suggest the solution that's best for your partner
You can use the clear message format (behavior, interpret, etc.)
You can share your own experiences and ideas
You can focus on what you think is the most relevant
"Yeah, I know what you mean."
"So, you're stressed, huh?"
"You'll be fine; you always get good grades."
"Bet you're wishing you hadn't taken 18 credits?"
"So, you're managing most things just fine, but will be relieved when finals are over?"
Heart rate quickens
Respiration increases
Body temperature rises
All of the above
None of the above
Advising
Judging
Analyzing
Supporting
Questioning
Analyzing
Judging
Repeating
Supporting
Paraphrasing
The situation
The other person
Yourself
Both a and b above
A, b, and c above
Like us
Are high self-disclosers
Are perfect
Approve of us even in ways we know are inaccurate
Integrating
Differentiating
Bonding
Terminating
Intensifying
Collectivistic tension
Differentiating end state
Counterfeit goal state
Dialectical tension
Proximity problem
Connection-autonomy dialectic
Cohesion-revolt dialectic
Predictability-novelty dialectic
Openness-privacy dialectic
Denial
Disorientation
Alternation
Segmentation
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