What Is Your Ideal Tier?

10 Questions | By Thetiersoflove | Updated: Mar 22, 2022 | Attempts: 85

Choose one answer per question. If more than one answer applies, choose the one that is closest to what is true for you. Be completely honest in order to produce the most accurate results.

You May Get

First Tier

It appears from your answers that you desire to be in a First Tier relationship. A First Tier relationship is one where you and your partner are deeply connected in a basic organic way. You understand each other and see each other for who you truly are. The desire for this kind of relationship is a healthy need to be fully understood and "gotten" by another. If you are not currently, or have never been in this type of relationship, you may not have met your First Tier partner yet. There is also a possility that you may be a First Tier Blocker. If you currently have a First Tier connection, then congratulations, you are exactly where you should be!

Second Tier

It appears from your answers that you desire to be in a Second Tier relationship. Second Tier relationships can be quite useful to our lives. They serve a specific purpose. If you are satisfied with your relationship then congratulations, you are exactly where you should be! If you desire something more, it may be time to re-evaluate your priorities and/or your relationship choices. Because Second Tier relationships tend to be limited, make sure that you are not only drawn to this type of connection out of fear of establishing something deeper or more long-lasting.

& many more results.
Start this quiz to find your result.

Questions and Answers

1.

AFTER TWO YEARS, A COUPLE SHOULD BE:
- A.
  
  Wherever they are at the moment, but the connection should be stronger than ever
- B.
  
  Engaged, or planning their lives together
- C.
  
  About ready to move on
- D.
  
  Still dedicated to each other completely, despite all of the ups and downs
2.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ME IS THAT MY PARTNER SUPPORTS:
- A.
  
  My need for peace, stability, and safety
- B.
  
  My ideals, my career and/or my need to satisfy my immediate desires
- C.
  
  My need to know they will never abandon me
- D.
  
  My belief in our connection and my efforts to maintain that connection
3.

IT IS ONLY "REAL LOVE" IF:
- A.
  
  It is promised to last "forever"
- B.
  
  I feel completely at ease and understood by my partner
- C.
  
  I'm not sure what real love is
- D.
  
  I feel like I would die without the other person
4.

I WOULD NEVER DATE SOMEONE WHO:
- A.
  
  I didn't connect with effortlessly and completely
- B.
  
  Wasn't my "type," or couldn't help me in my career
- C.
  
  Didn't share my core values and goals
- D.
  
  Didn't invoke intense and passionate feelings that make me think I couldn't live without them
5.

THE FIRST OR MOST IMPORTANT THING I LOOK FOR IN A PARTNER IS:
- A.
  
  Their appearance and/or status
- B.
  
  A high level of reliability, considerateness, and kindness
- C.
  
  Effortless connection and complete reciprocity of feelings
- D.
  
  Whether we have an intense passionate attraction
6.

IF MY FAMILY DIDN'T APPROVE OF MY PARTNER, I WOULD:
- A.
  
  Not care, they rarely approve of anybody I date
- B.
  
  Care but know that their dissaproval is only because my partner doesn't fit their idea of who I should be with but once they see how connected we are they will change their minds
- C.
  
  Care deeply, I would never date someone my family didn't approve of
- D.
  
  Care a little but I know that the relationship isn't going to last forever so it doesn't concern me too much
7.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING IN A RELATIONSHIP IS:
- A.
  
  Effortless connection
- B.
  
  Intense passion
- C.
  
  Long-Term Compatibility
- D.
  
  Short-Term satisfaction
8.

IF I COULD CREATE MY PERFECT PARTNER, HE OR SHE WOULD:
- A.
  
  Be exactly like I always pictured my perfect lover to be
- B.
  
  Share my core values and goals
- C.
  
  Make me the center of their lives, and wouldn't be able to live without me
- D.
  
  Understand and know my innermost self
9.

HAPPINESS IS:
- A.
  
  Feeling completely connected to someone else
- B.
  
  Being with my ideal partner
- C.
  
  Having a stable peaceful home life
- D.
  
  Complete entwinement with another
10.

THE PROMISE OF BEING WITH SOMEONE FOREVER IS:
- A.
  
  Not realistic
- B.
  
  Something to strive for, but a deep connection has value no matter how long it lasts
- C.
  
  Something I believe in strongly, and anything less is not "the real thing"
- D.
  
  Difficult to achieve because relationships are so tumultuous