Do you ever worry that you're pushing your boyfriend or girlfriend away by being too clingy? Being clingy makes you dependent on your partner. You become addicted to them. Over-attachment may lead to repulsion from your partner. Take this "Am I clingy quiz" to find out if you are clingy and need to let go of this habit.
Too many to count
Few times
Whenever I feel to...
I wait for them to call me
True
False
True
False
Surprise them by going to the same place.
Call them up every hour to ask when they will return.
Wait for them to come home.
Make plans with your friends and let your partner enjoy theirs.
True
False
True
False
Say they should go alone and have fun.
Reluctantly agree but give them a curfew.
Demand that they get you an invite so you can go together.
Suggest you do something else as a couple, such as go to the cinema or have a meal.
No – even if we lived and worked together, it wouldn’t be enough.
No – he/she sees their friends too much, so we don’t have quality time together.
I’m not sure what is normal.
Yes – it’s good to have space in a relationship.
Yes, but I can’t help it.
My partner/ex-partner has said I am in the past.
No, it’s normal to want to spend every second with the person you love.
No, I’m never clingy because I like my own space myself.
Spend more time together alone.
Be more open and honest.
Introduce you to their family.
Move-in together.
Nothing, it’s perfect as it is!