1.
Do you regularly scan your environment for potential dangers and threats?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
When you make the effort to notice what’s going on in your environment, you give yourself the best chance to avoid possibly dangerous situations. Assaults will almost always provide an indication of imminent attack if you train yourself to notice the signs. But you must pay attention.
2.
Do you keep the doors of your home locked at all times? Your windows partially opened for air but locked to prevent entry?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Make a habit of always locking exterior doors each time you enter. This way you will never leave a door unlocked for easy access by an intruder. Equip your windows with locking devices that allow you to be secure while still enjoying a cool breeze.
3.
Do you take note of the entrances & exits when in a new location?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
In an emergency, you don’t want to be scrambling to find an exit during the chaos. Take a moment while standing in line at the coffee shop, waiting to order in the restaurant or taking your seat at the movies. It’s even a good idea to scout out your place of employment for exits and places to find concealment if needed someday. Don’t wait until all hell breaks loose to come up with a plan.
4.
Do you make a point to notice the people around you?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Take note of people in your immediate vicinity. Does anyone seem out of place, behaving in a suspicious manner? Are there groups of young men loitering nearby? Does someone appear to be taking an inappropriate interest in you?
5.
Do you sharpen your observation skills by practicing noticing details about people and vehicles, such as hair color, facial hair, color of clothing, license numbers?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Improve your powers of observation by playing a game with yourself where you try to remember details about a person or vehicle. See how complete a description you can develop. Imagine you need to give this description to law enforcement to identify a person that committed a crime against you or someone you care about.
6.
When approached by a stranger do you avert your eyes and look down?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
When a predator is sizing up a potential victim, he looks for someone he is certain he can dominate and control. If you look down and away when being approached by a stranger, you are advertising that you are timid and frightened. Instead, keep your head up, look them briefly in the eye as you approach. This tells them, “I am aware of you staring at me and I am not an easy target.” This may be enough to cause them to seek a more submissive target. However, do not act in a challenging manner as if you are welcoming an incident. Your first thought should always be to avoid confrontation. Avoid the avoidable.
7.
Do you check behind yourself while walking?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Even while walking in a relaxed state of awareness it is important to occasionally look behind you. Perhaps you’ll notice that the guy that was twenty feet behind you a minute ago has now closed to five feet and has one hand inside his jacket. You now have an opportunity to maybe walk into a storefront and surround yourself with people. Could be that he was just late meeting someone and was reaching for his cell phone. Since you can’t know that, it’s best to make a habit of checking behind you and being prepared to respond.
8.
Are you often startled by people who are suddenly in your space?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
If you are frequently startled by people suddenly in your space, this is a sign that you are unaware of what is happening around you. You are not paying attention and are at risk for being surprised by an attacker. Women who are not paying attention to their surroundings are advertising themselves as prime targets for predators.
9.
Would you consider yourself an easy target?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
If you consider yourself an easy target, then you are an easy target. You obviously believe that you present yourself as scared and not capable of defending yourself.
10.
Do you tend to notice changes in shadows and reflections?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
One technique to use in assessing your environment is to use reflective surfaces to monitor movement without turning your head. It’s been said that women have a more developed peripheral vision than men, making it possible to subtly watch someone you are concerned about without being overt. Changing shadows can also provide information about people or vehicles in motion around you.
11.
Would the people that know you say you are mostly confident?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
The people that know you well have an opinion of your general demeanor. Ask those whom you trust for their honest opinion.
12.
Would the people that know you say you are mostly timid?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Same thought as Question 11. If people whom you trust feel you are mostly timid, then you need to make some changes to the way you present yourself in an effort to avoid becoming a victim of violence. Seek out a good counselor to help work on increasing your self-esteem.
13.
Do you know where most violent attacks occur in your community?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
One way to increase your odds of avoiding becoming a victim is to stay out of areas known to be unsafe and high crime areas. Every community has them. They are frequently located in areas where business is mostly transacted in cash.
14.
Are you frequently in locations where alcohol and or drugs are prevalent?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Your odds of being involved in a violent incident increase dramatically if you are frequently in locations where alcohol and/or drugs are used to alter consciousness.
15.
Do you tend to stay late at locations where minds are being altered with alcohol or drugs?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
If you tend to stay until the bar or nightclub closes or have to be one of the last to leave the party, you again run the risk of being there when the violence starts. Most intoxicated men vent their frustration and anger when their opportunities to find a partner are drying up and that’s closing time. You don’t want to be there.
16.
Are you ever too intoxicated to get home without help?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
This should go without saying but if you are so intoxicated that you rely on someone you’ve just met to get you home safely you are in a seriously dangerous situation. You are at the complete mercy of a stranger. Would you want this for your best friend or daughter?
17.
Do you ever go out without telling a friend or family member where you are going, with whom, and when you should be home?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Let someone that cares about you know when you go out, especially at night. That way if you are late getting home someone will be alerted to the possibility that you may need help. If no one knows where you went and when to expect you back, by the time you are noticed missing it may be too late to help.
18.
Do you live alone?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Living on your own for the first time is very exciting, but it is so important that you take the right precautions to insure your safety. Always keep your doors and windows locked, never open the door to strangers and do not give your spare keys out. Do not approach your door with arms full of bags. As a general rule, always have one hand free with which to defend yourself. Following this rule also demonstrates the fact that you think about your safety and may not make a suitable target.
19.
Do you share personal info online?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Sharing personal information online with strangers makes it possible for a predator with computer skills to gather info that can be used to track you down. What may seem like innocent fun has turned into tragedy on many occasions. Cyber criminals can steal more than just your identity.
20.
Do have an athletic appearance?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Women that have an athletic appearance project an image of someone that takes care of their health and values fitness. This may be another characteristic that removes you from the predator pool. Develop your physicality and enjoy the added benefit of increasing your level of safety.
21.
Do you tend to wait for others to take action?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
If you tend to be a follower, someone who feels safest as part of the herd, you may present yourself as submissive and timid, two characteristics that appeal to the predator looking for a victim.
22.
Is your cell phone battery ever dead?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Having a working cell phone available to you at all times is an invaluable tool for safety. Call for emergency services, let someone know you have changed plans, take a photo of a person that harassing you or the license plate of a car.
23.
Do you have a cell phone battery charger in your car?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Cell phones run on batteries which need to be periodically recharged. Don’t wait until an emergency situation to find your battery is dead. Invest in an inexpensive cell phone charger that plugs into the USB port of your car and charge a dead or low battery as you drive.
24.
Has your car ever run out of gas?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
Imagine you get a call from a friend or family member that needs your help in a hurry. You jump into your car and halfway to your destination the car begins to slow down, the engine sputters and you barely manage to get the car off of the freeway before it stops completely. You are out of gas. Now not only are you of no help to the person that needs you, you now are at some risk yourself as you wait for someone to help you. Never let your gas tank fall below the half-full mark. It’s better to be inconvenienced and fill up when you have the time, than to be stranded when you don’t have the time to spare.
25.
Do you have an emergency roadside assistance membership?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Even if you are religious about maintaining your gas levels, your car can still have a mechanical breakdown so signup for a service such as AAA or OnStar that you can call when you need help. Always call a family member or friend and let the service driver see and hear you giving them the company name and phone number on the truck that has come to assist you. Do not get out of the car unless it is unsafe to remain inside. You can hand your membership card out through the slightly-rolled down window.
26.
Do you keep a spare car key somewhere in your daily personal belongings?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
This suggests that the person does keep a spare car key in their daily personal belongings.
27.
Do you check the back seat of your car before getting in?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
It is important to check the back seat of your car before getting in for safety reasons. This is to ensure that there are no potential threats or unexpected passengers in the back seat that could pose a risk to your safety. By checking the back seat, you can prevent any potential harm or danger that may be hiding in your vehicle.
28.
Are your car doors always locked? (after you exit and after you climb back in)
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
The correct answer is YES because it is important to always lock your car doors for safety reasons. Locking your car doors can help prevent theft and unauthorized access to your vehicle. It also provides a sense of security and peace of mind knowing that your car is protected. Additionally, locking your car doors can help prevent accidents by ensuring that the doors do not open unexpectedly while driving.
29.
Do you shy away from and choose to ignore news or reports of violence?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The correct answer is NO because it suggests that the person does not shy away from or ignore news or reports of violence. This means that they are willing to confront and acknowledge the reality of violence in the world.
30.
Do you believe that an assault could never happen to you?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The answer "NO" suggests that the person does not believe that an assault could never happen to them. This implies that they are aware and acknowledge the possibility of being a victim of assault. They understand that no one is immune to such incidents and are cautious about the potential risks.
31.
Do you ever go running or walking while listening to music wearing headphones or ear buds over both ears?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The correct answer is NO because the question is asking if the person ever goes running or walking while listening to music with headphones or earbuds over both ears. The person is indicating that they do not engage in this activity.
32.
Do you often use the ATM at night for cash withdrawals and deposits?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The answer is NO because the question asks if the person often uses the ATM at night for cash withdrawals and deposits. Since the answer is NO, it means that the person does not often use the ATM at night for these purposes.
33.
Do you frequently use mass transit and/or public parking facilities at night?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The answer "NO" indicates that the person does not frequently use mass transit and/or public parking facilities at night.
34.
Do you take the same route, at the same time to school or work every day?
Correct Answer
B. NO
35.
Have you gone over different personal danger scenarios in your head and thought about what you would do in those situations?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
The given answer indicates that the person has indeed gone over different personal danger scenarios in their head and has thought about what they would do in those situations. This suggests that the person has taken the time to consider potential dangers and has mentally prepared themselves for such situations, which can be beneficial in terms of personal safety and decision-making in times of danger.
36.
Are you quick to anger when faced with idiots on the road?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
This answer suggests that the person is not quick to anger when faced with idiots on the road. They may have a calm and patient demeanor while driving and are able to handle frustrating situations without getting angry.
37.
Do you talk on or text from your cell phone while driving?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The correct answer is NO because talking or texting on a cell phone while driving is dangerous and can lead to accidents. It is important to focus on the road and avoid any distractions that could impair your ability to drive safely.
38.
Have you ever arrived at your destination without any clear memories of the drive?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The answer is NO because it implies that the person has never arrived at their destination without any clear memories of the drive.
39.
Do you talk on or text from your phone while walking?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The given question asks whether the person talks on or texts from their phone while walking. The answer "NO" indicates that the person does not engage in these activities while walking.
40.
Are your movements and actions throughout the day "predictable"?
Correct Answer
B. NO
41.
Do you rely only on your husband, boyfriend or partner to protect you from harm?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The answer is NO because relying solely on one person, such as a husband, boyfriend, or partner, to protect oneself from harm is not advisable. It is important to take personal responsibility for one's safety and well-being, and not depend solely on someone else for protection. It is recommended to have multiple layers of protection, such as self-defense skills, being aware of one's surroundings, and having emergency plans in place.
42.
Does it bother you to make someone feel uncomfortable?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
This answer suggests that the person does not feel bothered or affected by making someone feel uncomfortable. It implies that they may not have empathy or consideration for others' feelings and may not prioritize creating a comfortable environment for others.
43.
Are you flirtatious with strangers?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
This answer indicates that the person is not flirtatious with strangers.
44.
Do you need to be liked by everyone?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
It is not necessary to be liked by everyone because everyone has different preferences, opinions, and perspectives. It is unrealistic and impossible to please everyone. It is more important to focus on being true to oneself and surrounding oneself with people who appreciate and support them for who they are. Seeking validation and approval from everyone can be exhausting and may lead to sacrificing one's own happiness and authenticity.
45.
Do you think that your right to dress in any manner you choose is more important than your personal safety?
Correct Answer
B. NO
Explanation
The answer "NO" suggests that the person values personal safety more than the right to dress in any manner they choose. This implies that they prioritize their well-being and security over their freedom of expression through clothing choices. It could be because they believe that personal safety is essential for overall well-being and that compromising it for the sake of fashion or personal style is not worth it.
46.
Did you know that most violent assaults on women are committed by someone they already know?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
Most violent assaults on women are committed by someone they already know. This statement is supported by various studies and statistics on violence against women. It is commonly known that a significant number of sexual assaults, domestic violence incidents, and other forms of violence are perpetrated by acquaintances, partners, family members, or friends of the victims. This highlights the importance of addressing not only stranger danger but also the need to educate individuals about recognizing and preventing violence within their own social circles.
47.
Would you be able to end a date early if you were feeling uneasy about the person you were with?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
The answer is YES because everyone has the right to prioritize their own safety and well-being. If someone is feeling uneasy or uncomfortable on a date, it is important for them to be able to end the date early without hesitation. Trusting one's instincts and taking steps to ensure personal comfort is crucial in any situation, including dating.
48.
Are you easily charmed by attractive men?
Correct Answer
B. NO
49.
Do you prefer "bad boys" over "good guys"?
Correct Answer
B. NO
50.
Do you think you have a well developed intuition?
Correct Answer
A. YES
Explanation
The given correct answer is "YES". This suggests that the person believes they have a well-developed intuition. However, without further context or explanation, it is unclear why they believe this or what factors contribute to their perception of having a well-developed intuition.