What Color Is Your Personality? (Very In-depth Test!)

1. Regarding your views/approach to spirituality, faith or religion, which of the following statements would you say is the most true?

My approach to spirituality is usually through the lens of reason, thus, I’m 100% open to the possibility of my spiritual beliefs being wrong- but, that being said, I do, indeed, have spiritual beliefs.

I am devoutly, passionately spiritual! Even though I don’t claim to know everything, I don’t think I would ever stop being spiritual.

My spiritual life is subtly integrated into my everyday life.

Other/I’m not spiritual/religious at all (skip this question.)

2. Which of the following statements is the MOST true of you?

I can be over-protective of those I love to the point of ferocity.

It drives me crazy when something gets between me and my goal and, sometimes, I will stop at nothing to succeed!

Whether or not I actually act on this, it’s sort of my natural inclination smother, coddle or spoil loved ones.

When I’m not getting what I need, I can become passive-aggressive.

3. Which of these qualities do you admire most?

Bravery

Savvy

Straightforwardness

Insightfulness

Composure

Honesty

Uniqueness

Toughness

Patience

Benevolence

Grace

Wisdom

Great Humor

Enthusiasm

4. Which of these is the most important thing to you?

Feeling loved.

Unlocking the secrets of matter, time and space.

Being free.

Being there for my friends and family.

Imagination.

Achieving my goals.

Justice.

Self awareness.

Fulfilling my truest destiny.

Stability.

Calm.

Mindfullness.

Fairness.

Understanding the nature of reality.

5. Which of these statements do you think is more true than the other?

To heal others, one first must heal themselves.

It isn’t really possible to heal anyone.

6. Which of these statements is most true of you?

I would describe my lifestyle as very tidy and orderly, but with breathing room.

I would describe my lifestyle as organized chaos.

I would describe my lifestyle as complete or near complete chaos- but this does not upset me.

I would describe my lifestyle as a web of interlocking harmonies.

My lifestyle is neither orderly, nor chaotic by default, as it changes from day to day.

7. Do you have an extremely strong sense of loyalty?

Yes

No

8. If you were to fall into a depression, would the depression end immediately if the source of said depression (problem) vanished?

Yes

No

9. Would you feel permanently miserable if you were stuck living in a city with little or no access to nature?

Yes

No

10. Would you rather receive…

A priceless artifact from the past

Money of the same value

An exquisite work of art of slightly less monetary value but much greater aesthetic value

11. Which of the following statements are 100% sure of you? Check all that apply!

I can be incredibly feisty when I need to be!

I admire those who work hardest.

I am a talented researcher.

I usually have a hard time standing up to others.

I often respect the villains in fiction as much or more than the protagonists.

Often, when people are venting to me about past conflicts, I find myself sympathizing with the opposing parties being discussed.

I sometimes need to be reminded that I’m unique and special.

I have an incredibly high pain tolerance.

I am disinterested in power.

I tend to get into arguments quickly, even though I don’t always mean to.

I consider most people to be very simple and easy to manipulate.

I’m always consciously observing the ways others around me behave.

I would refuse to bow to an enemy under any circumstances.

I am not afraid of pushing boundaries.

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12. Do you compare yourself to others semi-regularly to regularly?

Yes

No

13. I am more of a…

Thinker

Dreamer

14. Which of these statements are 100% true of you? Check all that apply.

I really can’t stand it when people think of me as naive!

I fly into an intense rage very easily, but I also get over it fairly quickly.

I have a very sarcastic/sardonic sense of humor.

I have a tendency to overlook things easily, and have, or am tempted to allow some unhelpful things to continue even at my own detriment for the sake of peace.

I have, or used to have very good intentions. Deep down, underneath many layers of life experience, I’m an idealist at heart, even though I might sometimes appear to be a cynic.

I need to either have a job that’s fascinating and extremely intellectually engaging, or something lax and flexible enough that I can daydream and/or plan for a more fulfilling career all the way through. Where many find mundane wage jobs to be stifling or depressing, I find them absolutely intolerable- beyond what others feel.

I have sometimes had difficulty making friends because I can be so incredibly sensitive.

I suppose some might consider me to be wishy-washy, boring or unimaginative, but, truthfully, I do have passions- I simply don’t tend to talk about myself much.

I aspire to be dignified, tactful and civilized- even toward people who drive me up the wall!

I’m fast-paced and indecisive and I really don’t mind it when (most) plans change on the fly.

I think I might have a hard time being friends with someone who was just like me.

I have a penchant for tradition and have a profound respect for that which is tried and true.

Even though I often tend to prefer spending my time alone, I’m a natural extrovert.

I can get very sour or out of shape if things go badly for me.

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15. Which statement is more true of you?

I always try to give others what they want and need.

I would say that everyone I meet sees a completely unique side of me; some of the versions of myself that I present to the world are dissimilar from one another.

16. Practicality is extremely important to me because…

I get more stuff done that way, which means there is more to gain.

It is a healthy way to live.

Other/I’m not overly practical (skip this question.)

17. Does the thought that your state of mind may be incredibly skewed, and that reality, as we know it, is fake and/or entirely dissimilar to what we think it is make you feel uneasy or fearful?

Yes

No

18. Which statement resonates most with you?

I try to be honest all the time, and I would rather others were always honest with me, even when the truth is painful.

I’m a very open and honest person, but I’m still careful with what I say; sometimes, diplomacy is necessary.

Contrary to what many people claim, honesty is not always a positive thing, and sometimes, people’s biases get in the way of them properly understanding the truth to begin with.

19. Would your friends and/or family be shocked if they learned just how many times you've bent over backwards for them without them even noticing- sometimes, even when they were being incredibly selfish?

Yes

No

20. What is more true of you?

Although I don’t always do this, if I choose to be numb to my feelings, it’s primarily when I am upset.

I choose to be numb to my feelings very often; emotional control is important to me.

I don’t regularly suppress my emotions.

21. Which of these things do you find the most annoying?

A dishonest, cowardly weasel.

Someone else spreading a rumor about me out of pettiness or envy.

Being told I’m not allowed to do something for a dumb reason.

A shallow, unintelligent person seeking approval from or sucking up to someone they perceive as powerful.

An unrealistic, lazy person who is a drain on society.

22. To you, the phrase "being true to oneself" most means… (Choose whichever answer you're most drawn to, even if most of them are true for you!)

Reaching for my goals, unfettered by fear or doubt!

Expressing myself fully.

Just being me; I don’t need to think about it for it to be true!

Finding out/knowing who I truly am from the inside out and living as that person.

Being completely unrestricted in every conceivable aspect of my life.

Living a gentle life, surrounded by beauty and tranquility.

Living the lifestyle I want to live.

23. Which of these qualities would bother you more in a romantic partner?

They frequently misinterpret and/or judge me.

They frequently dismiss my point of view and/or condescend to me.

24. Check all statements that you think definitely apply to you!

If I wanted to, and was given the chance, I think I could be a secretary to a highly successful/busy person; I think I'd have the skills necessary.

I have a dumb sense of humour sometimes (or maybe often times).

I use foul language quite often.

I must admit that I occasionally enjoy watching scandals and insane drama on TV. It's kind of like an intriguing train wreck.

I basically take nothing at face value.

I am a bit of a neat-freak by many people's standards.

I strongly dislike small talk most of the time.

I regularly seek out new genres of music.

I invest large amounts of time and energy into making my environment decorative and personalized, putting up loads of pictures, carefully choosing many ornaments, planning where everything should go, etc.

I love planning parties for loved ones!

Overall, I consider myself to be an extrovert.

I can't stand being asked stupid questions.

I would probably be comfortable taking psychedelics.

Dishonesty is by far the worst thing in a romantic partner.

I do not get distracted easily while studying something which truly interests me.

I am an extreme health nut.

I have often felt ignored and forgotten.

I consider myself to be highly introverted.

I am extremely into giving and receiving gifts!

I consider myself to be neither social, nor antisocial.

I often get lost in the stories of fictional characters.

Overall, I consider myself to be highly timid.

I would gladly talk to a stranger about their emotional problems all day long.

I enjoy discussing at great length the psychology of persons not present.

I sometimes worry about the mental states of my loved ones.

Ignorance often angers me.

I greatly enjoy the idea of running my own business.

I do not automatically respect someone due to their job title or life story.

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25. Which of these situations are the MOST likely to make you extremely angry or highly flustered?

A random person comes and sits next to me on a bus and strikes up a loud conversation.

An acquaintance I have almost nothing in common with contacts me regularly, and yet, all they ever seem to want to talk about is how much they wish we could "talk" more.

A coworker is being a total goof and not doing their job properly.

Someone is trying to force me to make a decision quickly.

Someone is repeatedly making excuses and refusing to own up to something they did.

Someone is driving very slowly in front of me when I'm on the road.

Being roped into a gossip-fest.

A friend repeatedly refuses to listen to my advice about an important issue, even though they are less experienced with the situation than I am.

Being told to stop talking before I've had an adequate chance to speak my mind.

Someone attempting to make me jealous or belittle me.

A loved one refusing to help me with a very simple task at my time of need.

Watching a friend or loved one engaging in something which I think is unethical or wrong.

Someone I care about getting victimized by another.

Being pressured into doing something I'm completely unprepared for.

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26. Which of these things do you think another person might say are your greatest flaws? Check all that apply!

Avarice

Obsessiveness

Prejudice

Apathy

Idealism

Lack of flexibility

Restriction

Docility

Clinginess

Self-doubt

Evasiveness

Impulsiveness

Domineering

Aimlessness

Self-indulgence

Prone to infatuation

Guardedness

Nihilism

Eccentricity

Lack of sympathy

Overt formality

Malleability

Neediness

Insecurity

Capriciousness

Recklessness

Self-importance

Unrealistic attitude

Aloofness

Restlessness

Lack of passion

Stubbornness

Lack of ambition

Insensitivity

Non-committal

Micro-management

Trying too hard

Possessiveness

Manipulation

Too exacting

Too secretive

Too trusting

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27. Which of these words do you think is the most unpleasant? (Don't think about which of these things is objectively the worst- just pick the WORD that is most unpleasant to you personally.)

Alone

Death

Forgotten

War

Idiot

Chaos

Lies

Unbalance

Hate

Futility

Lost

Lack

Hardship

Blame

28. What kinds of experiences do you usually seek out the most? (Choose the statement that BEST fits you overall!)

I typically seek out anything that I feel is progressive/helpful to myself or others.

I seek out happiness above all else, however I get it is fine, as long as I'm not hurting anyone.

I particularly love a mental challenge such as a logic-based game, or an engaging one on one discussion.

I most enjoy and, therefore, seek out introspection, meditation and/or spiritual stimulation.

I seek out companionship and affection.

I seek out most things that are pleasurable, fun or stimulating. Variety is important!

I love getting lost in the moment with a movie, music or other transporting activity.

I seek out moments in which I can simply “be” and don’t need to concern myself with a structured or specific activity. It doesn’t matter if this occurs while I’m alone or in a group!

I love calm, serene activities, usually (but not always) involving the arts.

I adore the finest that life has to offer and would want to grant the same to everyone if I could.

I’m very work oriented, so I love to be productive the majority of time, but I do like to mix business with pleasure.

I seek out times when I can really connect with someone one on one.

I seek out intriguing, new states of mind and interesting perspectives- usually, if I’m not learning or exploring, I’m not having fun.

I often seek out challenge and adventure; I love to push my limits!

29. Please check each statement that you think is 100% true of you!

For me, empathy is never a choice- I feel other people's emotions all the time- but I'm perfectly happy with this and definitely wouldn't change it if I could.

I tend to suffer from boredom and too much stagnation very easily causes me to slip into a state of depression.

I fluctuate between high and low levels of self esteem and often have a difficult time telling whether or not I appear to be vain or conceited.

Too much strife or discord in my environment is so unbearable to me that it's almost physically painful.

It is, or would be, pretty much the most amazing feeling in the world to know that I’ve helped someone to get over their psychological issues.

I'm usually a calm, rational person who doesn't typically get flighty or disorganized.

If I'm not careful, I can very easily get lost in my own head and experience difficulty transitioning back to "reality" again.

I'm very inspired! I usually have a million projects on the go- but I don't always have the motivation to finish them all!

On a semi-regular to regular basis, I feel sort of lost and trapped at the same time, and I feel like I'm searching aimlessly for some kind of star to guide me.

I prefer virtually every aspect of my life to be uncluttered, neutral and simple.

Sometimes, I really, really love having purely physical experiences!

At this point in my life, I require financial security to be content with my situation.

I can perceive beauty in absolutely everything.

Some people might consider my taste to be flamboyant or showy.

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30. How are you most likely to respond when under extreme stress?

Distract myself with something pleasurable or stimulating; even if my problems can’t be fixed easily, I’ll still try to make myself feel better.

Mind over matter! If the stress isn’t real, it can’t effect me!

I would engage in a soothing and/or light-hearted, emotionally healing activity.

Give myself a pat on the back and try a cheerful or exciting activity to raise my spirits!

Push it out of my mind, and then try to learn as much as I can about how to avoid the problem in the future.

Delve deep into my own imagination, where it’s safe until I calm down.

Work through the problem that’s creating the stress; I don’t want a bandaid fix, I want a real resolution and I want it now!

I tend to keep it all inside, to be honest. I swallow it down.

I reflect on all that I’ve learned that would be helpful, valuable or relevant to the situation at hand.

I would probably treat myself to something special.

I prefer to take immediate action rather than dwelling on a problem.

I handle stress extremely well most of the time, but if the situation was becoming a hindrance, I’d resolve it in whichever way seemed most efficient.

Meditate on the issue for a while- a solution is bound become apparent once I clear my mind.

I would talk it over with a close confidante to gain additional perspectives as well as a chance let it all out of my system.

31. You have a day off from all work, responsibility and stress sources; which of these activities would you most enjoy spending that day doing?

Pursuing one of my favorite topics and/or hobbies either at home, out with friends or even at a convention or event- what’s important is that it’s in-depth enough to satisfy me.

A day of pure bliss, either at a retreat somewhere, or at a very relaxed gathering, meditating or engaging in free-form discussions!

I would enjoy something like urban exploration, ghost hunting or maybe even a day of unusual movies.

A day where I REALLY get to express myself! I would love to be able to sing or perform my heart out in front of someone (or a whole audience) and, of course, to have the courage to do it.

A day of philosophy, discovery, intrigue and mental adventures- possibly coming from a book, video game or otherwise altered state of mind!

I’d really like to spend it with someone I’m dating, but I’d also enjoy spending it with friends and/or family members. Whatever we do is probably fine. :)

I’d love to throw a beautiful, classy dinner party or maybe attend a play, ballet or opera.

I’d love to hit the town, go shopping at the best stores, eat the best food, go wine tasting and find the best locations, just to experience it.

A fun, yet relaxing party with all my friends! +snacks and games!

I want to spend the day letting off steam, maybe through dancing, sports or just traveling around in a vehicle for the fun of it!

If I was single, I would greatly enjoy something like an antique show, trade show or public business conference on that day, but if I had a family, I’d prefer to spend the day with them.

A day of deep emotional bonding, intimacy and possibly sex.

A nice mix of cleansing some things, while indulging others, such as eating healthy food while having a movie marathon- everything in moderation, including moderation.

Frolicking in the beauty and nature, picnicking or spending the day playing!

32. Which of these situations would usually make you feel the most uncomfortable?

A situation where something unhelpful from my past such as a smoking habit, phobia or manipulative person is trying to get back into my life. (in this scenario, it’s more likely that you won’t succumb, but it’s still a hassle)

Being surrounded by large groups of people and expected to interact with them when I’m not in the right frame of mind to do so.

Being forced to spend an entire day with an extremely closed-minded, egotistical, selfish person.

Being completely cut off from the one thing that currently brings me the most comfort/stability for a week. (basic human amenities/necessities such as nutrients or access to a shower aren’t included in this scenario)

Meeting or discovering a person who is like me, yet seems to be better/more successful than I am in every way- more talented, smarter, established their career sooner, better looking, gets more attention, etc.

Being embarrassed publicly- flubbing my lines during in an important speech, being clumsy, spilling a beverage on my date or on a stranger, etc.

Being forced to speak and behave in a manner that is incredibly unlike anything that’s natural for my personality for an extended period of time.

Being forced to remain calm and sit still when I’m outraged or feeling a sense of injustice. (in this scenario, the offensive occurrence isn’t affected by your actions one way or the other, but you are being forced to suppress very justifiable rage)

Spending an extended period of time only having incredibly mundane, shallow discussions and consuming trite media that’s very bad- but not quite bad enough to be funny or interesting.

Having a particularly nasty, uncalled for encounter with a bully that I’m completely unprepared for and is below the proverbial belt. (in this scenario you won’t get physically hurt)

Having a nasty virus or disease with visual symptoms or, otherwise, being very physically unwell for a week and not knowing how quickly or slowly I’m going to recover. (in this scenario, the disease is not life threatening)

Spending an entire day consuming extremely negative, hateful art, music and movies, ect.

Being pressured to choose a side in an argument, for which, I feel there is no clearly/objectively right or wrong side and I can’t avoid being sucked into social drama.

Making a mistake that could potentially compromise my position or job security.

33. Which of these types of gifts would you probably most appreciate receiving?

Specifically, anything that shows that they know me and my tastes very well.

Something that I would find very engaging, unique or interesting.

Something that is simultaneously practical and aesthetically pleasing/beautiful.

Something really cute or funny that makes me smile.

Something that inspires my creativity or aids my imagination

Although I don’t actually expect this of anyone, secretly, I am always most excited/pleased to receive an expensive gift.

Something that really demonstrates/represents their enjoyment of our friendship that’s relevant to the positive times we’ve shared. (something related to an inside joke, for instance)

A gift that clearly communicates that I’m loved/important.

Something I was already planning on buying. Practical is also a bonus!

Something that denotes class, elegance or good taste.

It would be really neat if they planned a surprise fun activity for us to do together.

I’m grateful to receive virtually any gift.

Preferably something that’s on my current wish list, but otherwise, a gift that they put a lot of time, effort and thought into.

Something that will remind me of the giver/personality of the giver.

34. Which of these statements most accurately describes your social habits, preferences or experience? Choose the best, most overall fitting/true answer.

When I interact with people, I like to go all out planning stuff to make sure we have lots of fun. Ultimately, I’m far more concerned about quality of time than quantity of time.

Whether I have one friend or several friends I love spending time with very active people who want to do activities with me.

I really like having/would like to have many friends as well as acquaintances. The more the merrier!

I really require a balance of active and passive time with people; I feel stagnant if I don’t have both.

I’m interested in/enjoy having most types of social experiences, but I’m technically a bit of a loner.

I have about 2-3 friends I see now and again and the kinds of things we do are fairly consistent. I don’t often engage with acquaintances if I can help it.

I have a handful of friends in my life, but I spend the majority of my time alone or with a partner.

I like to/want to have as many close friends as possible. I actively desire to cultivate deeper, more meaningful relationships with others.

I have a lot of people I consider true, even close friends, as well as a much smaller, inner circle of friends who I consider to be as close as or closer than family.

Often, social activities feel somewhat like appointments to me, but I’m okay with that.

I don’t have much of a preference when it comes to the frequency/types of social activities I engage in; every experience is valuable to me in its own way, whether I’m alone or with others.

I’d say that I know a huge amount of people and have tons of acquaintances, but I only have a very small, select few close friends.

I’m friendly to absolutely everyone, regardless of whether or not I know them. I don’t always go out of my way to get closer to people, but, due to my personality, it usually happens incidentally, sometimes, whether I want it to or not.

I like a lot of “me time” but I’m perpetually lonely.

35. Now, once again, please check each statement that you think is COMPLETELY true of you!

I am (objectively) more childlike and playful than the average person the majority of the time- not just when I’m alone, either! I’d be that way in front of literally anyone.

I am thinking about the future virtually every moment of every day.

I long for others around me to be consistent and reliable and often feel very anxious or flustered when they won’t or can’t be this way.

I would say that I’m more open-minded than the average person by an exceptionally wide margin.

Other people have, at times, thought of me as overly detached, dispassionate or indifferent.

I really like things in my life to be just so- I can always tell when something is a bit off, whether it’s an undercooked meal, a video game file left 98% complete or a crooked picture frame; I often have a strong desire to fix things like that.

Many of the kinds of things that other people find deeply disturbing, or just hard to stomach such as gory images, noise, chaos or extremely alien situations barely phase me, if at all.

I feel hurt or frustrated when I give a lot of attention and/or affection to another person and it feels like they don’t reciprocate it.

Sometimes, when I look in the mirror, I feel like the mirror is empty or a stranger is staring back at me.

I would say that, at my worst, I am jealous, possessive and slightly competitive.

I have a strong sense of personal identity.

I try to regularly cleanse myself psychologically in order to stay positive and productive.

I don’t think it’s worth anyone’s time to get too emotional about anything; if I’m unhappy, I’d much rather cut to the chase and do something about it, rather than talk/think about it.

My personality is equal parts pragmatic and whimsical.

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36. Which of these things do you (virtually) always actively look for in most, if not all of the movies/series you watch?

Philosophical and/or spiritual stimulation

Surprises, mystery, the thrill of not being able to predict the plot

Aesthetic/setting

Positive mood change

Subtlety

Realism (in the costumes, props, details, etc)

An intricate/complex, psychological plot

Progressiveness

Characters/situations I can relate to, regardless of setting

Incredible and/or fantastical acting, direction or production value

Intriguing premise/direction

Stimulation (mental, physical, emotional or all three)

Action/fast pace

Satisfying, well rounded story

37. Which of these cliches would you say resonates with you most strongly? (Note: even if some of these make you cringe, try to find one with a meaning you can relate to!)

I will wear my heart upon my sleeve.

Eat drink and be merry.

That which does not kill us makes us stronger.

Time heals all wounds.

Laughter is the best medicine.

The eyes are the window to the soul.

Where there's a will there's a way.

Know which way the wind blows.

All things must pass.

Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass: it's about learning to dance in the rain.

A chain is only as strong as its weakest link.

Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Truth is stranger than fiction.

38. Which of these things would you say is your greatest strength?

Practicality and/or efficiency

Intuition and/or discernment

Tolerance and/or impartiality

Compassion and/or forgiveness

Reason and/or logic

Humility and/or composure

Kindness and/or altruism

Imagination and/or appreciation

Generosity and/or gregariousness

Introspection and/or intellect

Flexibility and/or adaptability

Passion and/or spirit

Bravery and/or strength

Optimism and/or resilience

39. Which of these words do you find the most comforting? (Don't focus on which one of these things is objectively the best, or most desirable; only think about which WORD you personally find the most comforting.)

Serenity

Refresh

Unwind

Clarity

Light

Embrace

Home

Holding

Happiness

Health

Understanding

House

Safe

Void

40. What do you typically spend more time doing?

Observing myself.

Observing others.

Observing the whole world!

41. What's more important to you?

Improvement of my behavior.

Improvement of my life.

42. What would you rather have?

Completely evenly distributed potential to become skilled in any field, as long as you're willing to work hard to get there. (In this scenario, you have no pre-existing aptitude, but there will also never be a thing that you're bad at or can't learn- you'll simply be "okay" at everything.)

A very large amount of natural talent/ability in one completely random field. (In this scenario, you have the basic skills you need to get by in life without failing to get through things like school, day to day tasks, etc, but, outside of that, you aren't "good" or even "average" at anything aside from that one special field- in which, you are effortlessly a total master.)

43. Which of the following emotions/thoughts do you act on most frequently, and/or communicate/display the MOST of?

Forgiveness

Affection

Compassion

An overwhelming desire/need to help!

I infrequently express and/or feel any of the above.

44. Do you suffer from disassociation more than the average person? If so, what do you think is the main reason for this? (Note: disassociation is a state of being "disconnected" from oneself that occurs when mental processes that are ordinarily connected are separated from one another.) Choose the answer that is the most, or closest to being true.

I don’t think I get disassociated on a regular basis, if at all.

I have often withdrawn deeply (perhaps unhealthily so) into fantasy or fiction to escape emotional pain.

It’s fairly easy for me to separate myself from any given moment. I think this was caused by a feeling of being disconnected from others in childhood that lead to a feeling of being disconnect from myself.

It’s easy for my sense of identity to get swept aside as I lose myself in the lives of others.

My disassociation, in part, was triggered automatically in response to various situations I’ve been exposed to over the years, sometimes out of curiosity.

I think my imagination is the main cause of my tendency toward disassociation. It can be hard for me to tell fantasy, dreams and reality apart.

The times I’ve felt disassociated, it was likely a direct result of emotional and/or bodily neglect.

45. Which of the following statements would you say is true of you?

My ideal living space would be a kind of elaborate wonderland of interesting, beautiful and awesome stuff that myself and the people I invite over could enjoy using, playing with or just looking at.

I have/wish to have very high (if not the highest) quality versions of every single item I own. I despise all cheap things as a general rule.

In my ideal living space, you would find mainly just the bare essentials (little to no nick-knacks!) + a few select/special items that I’m really proud of, such as electronics, vehicles, kitchen gadgets or one or two special pieces of furniture.

Although I have a very strong love of many kinds of worldly objects I don’t feel in any way shape or form that I need them in order to have a good life.

Although I am capable of getting sentimental over inanimate objects, material things are relatively unimportant to me- I’ll get by no matter what!

46. Which of these are, or have been some of your darkest secrets in the course of your life? Check all that apply.

I have a deep fear that people think of me as stupid, foolish or gullible.

I have a desire to appear perfect in the eyes of others- to be the one person who everyone trusts, everyone comes to for advice and everyone thinks of as graceful, together, flawless and well-made.

A lot of my views, were I to voice them, would offend many people, as they’d likely be seen as harsh.

It is extremely easy for me to get addicted to things.

When I’m down on myself, I feel like I’m neither smart enough, nor caring enough to say that I lead with my head OR my heart.

Historically, I have gone out of my way not to get my hopes up. I’m always guarded, otherwise I feel things far, far more deeply than I want to.

Sometimes, I want so badly to be wanted that it hurts.

I have occasionally enjoyed it when others were jealous of me.

I really, really can’t stand the thought of being weak or pathetic.

I’m constantly feeling misunderstood by the people around me, and it’s beyond frustrating when people just can’t “get” what’s so obvious to me.

I almost always keep my beliefs to myself, as I suspect others might misconstrue them or take offense to them; I am deeply concerned about not offending others.

Truth be told, in some ways, I have very little fight in me and, in spite of appearances, I’m frequently on the verge of giving up.

Sometimes, I feel like a lost, vulnerable child wandering around in an unfamiliar world full of shadowy, intimidating figures.

I don’t think my friends are any more interesting or important than anyone else.

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