We TV - What Are The Odds That You Will Be Divorced?
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- 1.Do either you or your spouse currently have bitterness or resentment toward the other that seems to have been around for some time?
- A.
YES. MOST OF THE TIME.
- B.
WE SELDOM CARRY BITTERNESS TOWARD EACH OTHER.
- C.
WE NEVER HOLD RESENTMENT TOWARD EACH OTHER.
- 2.Has either one of you lost respect for the other?
- A.
WE DON'T RESPECT EACH OTHER.
- B.
WE DISRESPECT THE THINGS THAT THE OTHER DOES
- C.
WE RESPECT EACH OTHER
- 3.Do either of you dislike the other person, even though you still have loving feelings toward them?
- A.
WE DISLIKE EACH OTHER MOST OF THE TIME
- B.
OCCASIONALLY
- C.
WE LIKE EACH OTHER
- 4.Has the man in the relationship been able to financially support the marriage successfully?
- A.
YES. HE IS A HARD WORKER
- B.
NO. HE DOESN'T EARN ENOUGH MONEY
- 5.How often do you spend time each week in constructive communication and interaction with each other?
- A.
RARELY. BETWEEN KIDS, JOBS, ETC. THERE IS LITTLE TIME LEFT FOR US.
- B.
OCCASIONALLY
- C.
ALMOST EVERY DAY
- 6.When you think of your history with your mate, are the memories more positive or negative?
- A.
MOST ARE POSITIVE
- B.
MOST ARE NEGATIVE
- 7.When you talk about your mate to other people, is it primarily positive or negative?
- A.
NEGATIVE
- B.
POSITIVE
- 8.While every couple has their bad moments, what would you say is the dominant feeling when you and your mate are together?
- A.
LOVE BEING TOGETHER
- B.
DREAD BEING TOGETHER
- C.
INDIFFERENT
- 9.Is your sex life closer to being intimate and connecting or more towards missing the mark?
- A.
INTIMATE AND PASSIONATE
- B.
MISSING THE MARK
- 10.Do either of you currently have intimate feelings or desires towards someone outside your marriage?
- A.
YES. BUT IT IS JUST EMOTIONAL.
- B.
YES. IT HAS GOTTEN PHYSICAL.
- C.
NO
- 11.Are either of you currently struggling with any type of addictive behavior that is affecting the relationship?
- A.
YES
- B.
NO
- 12.Do either of you watch porn more than once per month?
- A.
YES
- B.
NO
- C.
LIMITED NUDITY IN R RATED MOVIES
- 13.Do either of you suffer from any type of mental disorder that cause conflict in your marriage?
- A.
YES
- B.
NO
- C.
YES, BUT IT DOESN'T HURT OUR RELATIONSHIP
- 14.Do either of you have a really hard time letting go of past hurts?
- A.
IT IS VERY HARD TO LET GO
- B.
IT IS OCCASIONALLY A PROBLEM
- C.
IT IS EASY TO GET OVER STUFF
- 15.Do either of you have feelings of disgust towards the other person?
- A.
MOST OF THE TIME
- B.
NEVER
- C.
SOMETIMES
- 16.Do either of you hide your emails, phone calls, passwords or texts from the other or do either of you keep secrets from the other?
- A.
YES
- B.
NO
- 17.Are either of you physically or verbally abusive in your relationship?
- A.
MORE THAN WE WOULD LIKE
- B.
RARELY
- C.
NEVER
- 18.When your spouse touches or kisses you do you find it?
- A.
ANNOYING
- B.
PLEASANT
- C.
INDIFFERENT
- 19.Do each of you consider your mate your best friend?
- A.
NO
- B.
YES
- C.
I'M NOT SURE THAT WE BOTH DO.
- 20.Do you both believe that you and your mate have the capacity to grow and change?
- A.
NOTHING EVER SEEMS TO CHANGE
- B.
WE HAVE HOPE THAT WE CAN WORK THINGS OUT
- 21.Has either of you fallen out of love for the other?
- A.
YES
- B.
NO
- 22.When either of you attempts to end the fight and make up by accepting responsibility, apologizing or other, is the attempt accepted?
- A.
YES, MOST OF THE TIME THAT WILL END THE FIGHT
- B.
YES, BUT IT TAKES A WHILE TO FEEL CLOSE AGAIN
- C.
NO, WE SEEM TO KEEP FIGHTING
- 23.Almost all couples get defensive when they fight, but do you and your spouse get so defensive that you just keep trying to prove the other wrong or win the fight?
- A.
YES, MOST OF THE TIME
- B.
RARELY
- 24.Have either of you shut down your hearts toward the other or given up on trying to make things work?
- A.
YES, ONE OF US HAS SHUT DOWN THEIR HEART.
- B.
YES, BOTH OF US HAVE SHUT DOWN.
- C.
NO
- 25.When you fight, is it primarily to complain about a situation, or to criticize your mate?
- A.
CRITICIZE MY MATE
- B.
COMPLAIN ABOUT A SITUATION
- C.
SOMETHING ELSE
- 26.Do either of you go for days without talking to the other because you have withdrawn or checked out?
- A.
ALL THE TIME
- B.
RARELY, BUT IT HAS HAPPENED
- C.
THIS NEVER HAPPENS WITH US
- 27.How motivated are the both of you to save the marriage and make it work?
- A.
WE ARE BOTH VERY MOTIVATED TO MAKE THINGS WORK
- B.
ONE OF US IS NOT VERY MOTIVATED
- C.
NEITHER US OF ARE VERY MOTIVATED.
- 28.Do either of you have trust issues that are effecting the relationship?
- A.
WE BOTH TRUST EACH OTHER
- B.
ONE OF US DOESN'T TRUST THE OTHER
- C.
NEITHER OF US TRUST THE OTHER
- 29.Does it seem that only one of you apologizes and that the other one rarely admits that they are wrong?
- A.
WE BOTH APOLOGIZE TO EACH OTHER FREQUENTLY
- B.
IT SEEMS THAT ONLY ONE OF US EVER APOLOGIZES
- 30.After you have an argument, how long does it take for you two to feel like the issue is behind you and everyone is forgiven.
- A.
WE HARDLY EVER MOVE PAST AN ARGUMENT
- B.
IT MAY TAKE A WHILE, BUT WE GET THERE
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