Am I Asexual? Quiz

10 Questions | By Butterscotchwm | Updated: Mar 22, 2022 | Attempts: 871859

Have you ever got the feeling that you are asexual? You can take this 'Am I Asexual Quiz' to find if you don't experience sexual attraction to others. With this asexual test, you will get the answer to your question, am I asexual? Your results in this am I asexual quiz are calculated according to your preferences. Make sure you answer honestly so that we can provide an accurate result!

You May Get

Asexual

You are probably the one who feel an absolute lack of sexual attraction or desire. This is not a bad thing! It is perfectly OK. Sometimes you might feel detached due to the media's oversexualized nature. Although many members of your family believe that being sexually attracted is a part of human nature. If we talk statistically, it's a part of 99% of human nature. DISCLAIMER: It is not a diagnosis. You can never diagnose a sexual orientation. Nobody can tell you about asexuality. You know yourself better than anyone else. It is only you who can decide if "asexual" is the right word to describe you.

Grey, or Gray Asexual

Perhaps there have been a few times in your life when you felt like you were just bad at being gay, or straight. You might feel some sexual attraction or desire towards a few people, but it's either rare, or it's not enough to make you want to act upon it. You still think of sex very objectively, and you would most often instead do other things. Rest assured that there are many other people like you, and it's OK to be this way! DISCLAIMER: It is not a diagnosis. You can never diagnose a sexual orientation. Nobody can tell you about asexuality. You know yourself better than anyone else. It is only you who can decide if "asexual" is the right word to describe you.

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Questions and Answers

1.

How well do you relate to this statement: "I don't feel sexually attracted to anyone, ever - regardless of gender or circumstance." (Take your time with this question and answer it carefully.)
- A.
  
  I don't relate to this very much. I experience sexual attraction regularly enough and desire sexual reciprocation from at least one gender.
- B.
  
  I relate to this most of the time, but there have been a few exceptions.
- C.
  
  I relate to this until I'm with someone I've grown attached to, romantically or otherwise.
- D.
  
  I feel sexually attracted to people. I don't desire reciprocation of said sexual attraction.
- E.
  
  I relate to this 90% - 100%!
2.

If there's one thing you see in a good partnered relationship, it's...
- A.
  
  Companionship.
- B.
  
  Trust, and good communication!
- C.
  
  Emotional connection.
- D.
  
  Boundaries.
- E.
  
  Sexual intimacy.
- F.
  
  Not sure.
3.

You see a stranger who would be pretty sexually attractive to most people. How would you usually feel?
- A.
  
  Well! That person is pleasing, and have admirable physical qualities.
- B.
  
  I feel warm whenever I'm close to them. They are cute.
- C.
  
  They are cute, but, I can't feel that attracted to someone unless I know them.
- D.
  
  I get the hots and all that, but, I don't want that person to like me back.
- E.
  
  I get nervous, my heart starts beating, and I start thinking about sexual things with that person; I want them to notice me.
- F.
  
  I don't feel anything around these people.
4.

Random scenario! Say the Trevor Project (an organization focused on suicide prevention efforts, LGBT) has visited your school or community to give a presentation; the presenter starts a list of ways for people to help themselves with depression. Near the end of the record, the presenter mentions SEX as an example! (After all, sex does raise endorphins.) Most of the room starts talking and laughing in agreement. How do you react?
- A.
  
  I'm talking and agreeing with everyone else / I'm probably the one who suggested SEX
- B.
  
  I am surprised at the number of people who agree / I feel like the odd ball out.
- C.
  
  I understand, but I'm not sure if I quite agree with everyone else. I just shrug it off.
- D.
  
  I think just staring at my posters of attractive celebrities would do a better job than actual sex.
- E.
  
  Well, I would probably wonder how people have casual sex or one-night stands.
- F.
  
  N/A or Not sure.
5.

Partnered sex (to you) is...
- A.
  
  Like this club or activity that everyone seems to love, or wants to get into, but I just don't see what all the hype is about.
- B.
  
  Something I will occasionally want to do with someone attractive. But I could possibly live without it.
- C.
  
  Not necessary for my sexual desires.
- D.
  
  Amazing, and the best way to be intimate with your partner!
- E.
  
  Something I would do, or have done, but not because I'm attracted to them sexually. (ex: because I am in a relationship with someone who isn't asexual)
- F.
  
  N/A or Not sure.
6.

You start seeing someone you like, however, this person claims to be asexual. If they don't want a sexual relationship, and would much romantic without sex. How do you react?
- A.
  
  Sounds like the one...
- B.
  
  This person wants to be friends? I don't know why would they lead me on if they weren't interested. Welp, time to move on.
- C.
  
  I could roll with that!
- D.
  
  That's OK! I may be attracted to them, but don't bother about sexual feelings be reciprocated.
- E.
  
  Not sure.
- F.
  
  If I really liked the person, I would give it a shot!
- G.
  
  I understand the thing, but I don't think this person would be compatible with me.
7.

What if you were to a remain a virgin whole life?
- A.
  
  That would be pretty sad to me...
- B.
  
  Maybe I would have missed out on something. But if life was fulfilling in other ways, then that would make up for it!
- C.
  
  It would be sad if there was a specific someone I was attached to.
- D.
  
  As long as I got to masturbate.
- E.
  
  Don't care.
8.

You have a group of friends, and they are energetically who are talking about sexual activities. They are not joking about it, instead, they are discussing attractive people, and what they would like to do with them in bed.
- A.
  
  Whatever the subject is, I often feel alienated because I can’t relate to their thoughts and feelings.
- B.
  
  I'll laugh and join them, but I'll mostly listen. My friends are more into it than I am.
- C.
  
  I can relate more when the talk is about the people they've had a close relationship with.
- D.
  
  I do get the feeling, but I'm not enthusiastic about the activities, because I don't like being reciprocated.
- E.
  
  AY YO, CAN I JOIN IN? Where my seat at?
- F.
  
  I might have some past experiences to share. But I don't feel enthusiastic about it.
9.

Think about the first time you learned about "asexuality" (maybe it was even during this quiz?) What were your first thoughts, or knee-jerk reactions?
- A.
  
  Someone who doesn't experience sexual attraction at all? Ever? Like Sheldon from the Big Bang Theory? I didn't think that could exist.
- B.
  
  I can relate to the "not desiring sex" part. But I do feel sexually attracted to people.
- C.
  
  I feel asexual most of the time! The only exceptions are when I've already become close to someone.
- D.
  
  I can pretty much relate to it! Maybe I'm like 70%-90% asexual.
- E.
  
  This is me. Everything about this word is me. I can relate so much!
- F.
  
  Interesting! You learn something new every day.
- G.
  
  Sounds like a disorder.
10.

The sexual attraction is experienced by everyone differently. What is a sexual attraction to you?
- A.
  
  "Seeing someone even if they are not attractive but thinking you'd like to have sex with them." - AVEN User, 'That One'.
- B.
  
  When I have that warm feeling after seeing someone charming/handsome.
- C.
  
  When I see someone, I'm like "GET IN ME!"
- D.
  
  The strange feeling that people keep telling me about, but I'm not sure what it is or if I've ever experienced it.
- E.
  
  This warm/intense feeling I get for someone after I've become very close to them, and I want to take the relationship further.
- F.
  
  I know for a fact that I don't experience it at all, or very seldom.
- G.
  
  None of these apply/Not sure.