Updated: Shy Guy Levels Of Attraction Quiz

1. On a scale of 1-10, how much do you think this shy guy likes you?

1. My gut tells me he just doesn't like me.

10. Even though he may not be doing everything proactively, I have a huge sense that he likes me.

7.5. I have a good feeling he likes me, but I'm just not sure, I need some kind of confirmation from him.

5. Some days I have a good feeling he likes me, and other times he's just absent or aloof.

3. I honestly don't know.

2. Has he ever....

Moved to the other side of the room while you're in his presence?

Brushed against you or stood extremely close to you in the hall or social situation?

Looked at you for so long that you TOTALLY thought he was going to approach you and then he never actually did?

Mysteriously changed his class schedule or team so that you were suddenly together?

Selected you as a partner for a team project?

Not showed up at an event you were at that he was also supposed to be at?

Said something nice about you?

Said something not-so-nice about you?

Dated one of your friends?

Smiled at you while walking by?

3. Do you have his cell phone number?

Yes, he gave it to me.

Yes he gave it to me and he texts me often

No but he keeps telling me he'll call me.

No, we don't talk to each other.

4. Has he ever noticed things related to you or your appearance?

He has noticed something new about my appearance - either a new hair cut, a new piece of clothing, a piercing, or when I got my braces on or off.

I did make a remarkable change in my appearance once but he didn't notice.

He has noticed something new about my appearance and said he likes it!

He has agreed and nodded when other people have noticed something new I did or wore.

He noticed something new but told me he liked it better the other way.

5. Has he recently started to change his appearance?

He looks like he rolled out of bed but that's just his style.

He looks like he doesn't care at all and seems totally comfortable around me.

I honestly don't know. I'm so nervous around him it's hard to tell.

He looks really good lately, I've notice him either wearing cologne, dressing nicer, or doing his hair more than normal.

I notice him sit up straight and adjust his clothing while he's around me.

6. Does he lean in when you talk?

We've never talked :-(

No, he turns away from me when I talk to him.

He leans in and seems really interested in what I have to say.

He leans in and seems really interested, and tells me about his life easily.

Not really, I've talked to him but I always sense that he leans into my friend more than me.

7. Has he ever tried to initiate a conversation?

Yes, he has initiated a couple and they've gone well.

Yes, he has initiated a group conversation with my friends but he seemed nervous.

No, but he's always around and I sense he will try soon.

No, and I can never seem to find him anywhere.

No.

8. What kind of interaction have you had with him so far?

Eye contact in the halls, brief encounters in the classroom, maybe a bit of smalltalk here and there, but nothing more. He does always seem to be around me though...

None really - I haven't really had a chance to lock eyes with him or chat with him yet.

A good amount but I'm still not convinced. We've had a couple conversations but everything has been initiated by me... However when we do talk, he easily opens up to me.

We've had interaction including a conversation, but I have felt awkward and as if it didn't go well. I felt like I was doing all the talking.

A fair amount but it's always felt positive - I can tell he looks at me a lot, smiles a lot, and is open to me initiating conversation. The only bad thing is that he never approaches me!

9. How social is he with other people in his life?

Not very social or assertive at all. He is quiet and usually keeps to himself.

I often see him initiating conversations or banter with others, but I haven't really had the chance to chat with him myself yet.

Incredibly social around his guy friends, but quiet and shy around girls.

Moderately social. He has several close relationships but not a huge posse of friends.

Really social. Wait a minute, is this a quiz for shy guys?

10. If you've ever approached him and his group of friends before, what was the reaction?

He completely clammed up and became silent, but his friends were friendly and outgoing, especially toward me. I even noticed them looking at him like they were waiting for him to say something.

He seemed open to the conversation, even smiled, but did not say much.

The conversation was difficult - I kept asking questions but it seemed like things didn't go anywhere.

Everyone was friendly and normal including my crush.

His demeanour didn't change when I arrived, and he left the group at one point when the conversation was going on.

11. You get an A+ on your latest test. When you show him, what is his reaction?

He smiles and says, "Great job! Wow, beauty AND brains!"

An unenthusiastic "Good for you..."

He grabs the paper out of your hands and says, "Wait a minute, that's so unfair! I only got a B-!!"

He grins and says, "you must be really smart"

He pokes and teases you and says, "braniac!"

12. What is his relationship history?

OMG. I've never seen him talk or look at a girl, let alone date one!

He's had a long string of girlfriends and has a bit of a bad boy reputation.

Zero.

He's had one past relationship or crush but from what I know it was brief.

He's had a couple girlfriends but since he's shy they've always done the asking out.

13. You bump into him in the hall. What does he do?

Blushes like crazy, stutters "sorry" and runs away.

Scowls and says "watch where you're going!"

Helps you pick up your books and asks you where you're heading to.

Looks at his friends, laughs and says, "oh hey clumsy!"

Stays pretty quiet but says "hey" before you part ways.

14. What best describes the way you feel around him?

Completely and utterly awkward. There are always dead silences and it seems like he's SUPER nervous!

At ease and relaxed. He's super smooth when I actually talk to him.

I actually feel bad for him -- It seems like he's struggling to keep the conversation going.

There are a few hiccups but it's mostly smooth sailing.

Around him? What? I've never talked to him!

15. What is his body language like when you're around him?

He stands tall with his shoulders back and smiles.

He always turns away from me just a little, as if he's not interested.

He scratches his head and seems like he's thinking a lot.

He matches my body positioning like a mirror.

It depends on the day - sometimes his body language is open and friendly and other times he's distracted on his phone.

16. If you've ever made an advance on him (like a text or flirty snapchat), how did it go?

He reciprocated immediately by either texting you back or sending you a snap in return.

He responded to your texts the first few times but lately he hasn't been getting back to you.

He didn't respond.

He responded but you get the feeling that it's out of obligation and he's just being nice.

He responded immediately but seemed awkward.