Successful, powerful, a 'winner' who goes after what they want
Maybe older than you, someone who can take care of you and protect you
Someone who will fulfill you, they are competent and practical.
An equal who doesn't dominate you or insist on being the center of your life and is willing to take a back seat
Someone who sees themselves as the traditional 'marriage' partner and is good at it
Exciting, sexy and deep who lives in the here-and-now full of potential and very talented
A good family person who wants children is generous, mature, and a good partner.
You don't really think about partners in this way anymore - you are completely self-guided, and their surface qualities don't matter much to you
You can't say no if someone needs attention or help and will do whatever it takes, even at cost to yourself.
You live in the here-and-now and can sometimes make plans that you don't keep because something else comes up.
You sometimes feel taken for granted and don't have your feelings considered.
You are missing close and committed emotional intimacy.
You have a history of suspecting your partner of infidelity and have sometimes been proven right.
You sometimes struggle with indecisiveness and inertia.
You sometimes feel cut off from deep feelings and are rarely moved by art or music that expresses intense feelings.
You have a strong intuition which other people sometimes feel is uncanny, and they can shun you for.
Having your feet on the ground
Able to create an atmosphere of warmth and peaceful order
Sometimes a little 'odd' and 'other worldly.'
Having a warm and engaging personality
Independent and self-confident
Someone who has great skill at getting things done without a fuss
A loyal and committed person that they can count on
Perceptive - good at seeing things from another's point of view
Liked playing with dolls - pretending they were babies.
Were quiet, unassuming, and eager to please.
Liked playing house and cooking dinner for 'Daddy.'
Were a book fiend and could be found reading under the covers with a torch.
Felt strongly about causes and principles and often said, 'It's not fair!'
Were not at all shy - you often gave impromptu performances which charmed everyone.
Would run to your room if you got hurt rather than go to your mother.
Become unemotional and walk away, removing yourself from the room.
Confront them and argue logically with little emotion, demanding an explanation which you go through point by point.
Withdraw internally and intuitively try to sense what it means and why it happened.
Get angry and shout, suffering from strong emotions of betrayal.
Feel frightened, cry and try to make it better.
You can't imagine a situation where you'd feel your partner has let you down - you wouldn't interpret any behavior in this way.
Stand your ground and battle to protect yourself by arguing until they give in.
Get angry and shout but then in the next moment, laugh and use your charm to get your own way.
It was the most important day of your life, and you loved every moment of being married, even when your spouse did not live up to your expectations.
It's not an overriding priority. although it's a good thing for children.
I enjoy being a home-maker, but I don't need a spouse to feel fulfilled.
It was just something that 'happened' I got swept into it.
I've had several marriages with very different spouses.
Not important to me, although I respect what it can provide.
It's a mutually advantageous partnership which can sometimes almost be like a 'business' arrangement, and I don't get jealous.
Settling down has no great attraction, but I may end up in an asexual/companionable marriage as best friends.
You are running out of 'unchartered wilderness' to explore and are feeling an urge towards introversion and turning to 'psychic' realms.
Maintaining a good marriage or dealing with a break-up causes feelings of abandonment and jealousy.
Having a mid-life crisis - finding yourself acting unpredictably for the first time.
Anxiety about fading beauty and attractiveness.
Facing an 'empty nest' and what that will mean.
Not fading into complete insignificance as the years pass.
How to feel fulfilled and satisfied, sharing the wisdom gleaned over the years.
You are very independent. You set your own goals and play full out to achieve them.
You are very practical and pragmatic - you plan ahead and can be 'political.'
You firmly believe in partnership - getting what you want has generally been done in partnership with another person to whom you are very committed.
You don't really 'want' things as such, but follow your intuition as to what to do next.
You work with others as a team and provide whatever is needed - you are generous to a fault.
You tend to not have strong views on what you want and will follow along with what other people are doing and enjoy that.
You know you have a tendency to get your own way, and others remark on your charm and charisma in getting what you want.
Going with the flow
Hearth and home
Being in a committed relationship
Living in the 'here-and-now'
Intellect and thinking
Intuition and 'inner knowing.'
Men who like younger women and who are usually older than you
Powerful men who can have a 'little boy' aspect
'Brotherly' men who act as equals or men who compete with you
Men who see themselves in the traditional 'husband' role
Men who you feel are really little boys at heart or who turn out to be immature or self-absorbed.
Creative, moody, 'bad boy' types or who occur like 'a pent up volcano.'
You don't really attract any particular 'type' and have spent periods of time on your own