Do You Hold A Grudge?

5 Questions | By Jessywoo | Updated: Mar 22, 2022 | Attempts: 4343

Do you forgive and forget or hate and hold a grudge? How willing are you to forgive? Take this quiz to find out the truth about yourself!

You May Get

Forgive and Forget

Result: You are the type of person who hates being on bad terms with anyone. You make it up with them as soon as possible and can easily forget the bad thing without letting it get to you.Tips: Don't let yourself become a doormat. Some people may take advantage of your kind-hearted nature.

In the Middle

Result: You have good judgement skills and you use them effectively to decide whether or not to follow up an argument. You don't let things get to you but you're not a doormat either. This is a good balance to have.Tips: Carry on with what you're doing! You have the skills to judge arguments well.

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Questions and Answers

1.

Your little sister has scribbled over your homework in felt tip. You know she didn't mean to - she's only two years old - but you worked really hard on it. Do you:
- A.
  
  Do the homework again and put it on a high shelf out of her reach. You'll just need to be more careful in future.
- B.
  
  Moan at your parents to tell her off. She's two - surely she's old enough to understand?
- C.
  
  Scribble all over her beloved baby books in felt tip. See how she likes it.
2.

You and another person both go for a place in the hockey team. They get the place and you don't. Do you:
- A.
  
  Congratulate them, but don't exactly hold back the disappointment.
- B.
  
  "Accidently" trip them up so that you can take their place while they're injured. Besides, you're better for the team.
- C.
  
  Congratulate them wholeheartedly. They won fair and square.
3.

What would be your reply if someone asked you "Who do you really hate?"
- A.
  
  "Anyone who upsets me. Why should I bother with them if they upset me?"
- B.
  
  "Nobody! I hate being on bad terms with people."
- C.
  
  "Maybe a select few who really bother me. But I get along OK with most people."
4.

What would you do if someone really close to you - like your best friend or your mum - upset you with something they said?
- A.
  
  Forgive them. They obviously didn't really mean what they said.
- B.
  
  Don't talk to them until they're practically begging for forgiveness. If they didn't want to upset me then they shouldn't have said what they did, end of story.
- C.
  
  Be wary. Now that they've upset you once there's no saying they won't do it again, even if they are close to you.
5.

You are talking to your cousin on webcam. They say something really horrible about what you are wearing, so much so that you turn off the webcam in disgust. Next time you talk to each other you:
- A.
  
  Are more alert about what they're saying, in case they hurt you again.
- B.
  
  Since when did I next talk to them? That was the end of our webcam chats. I don't want to talk to them any more.
- C.
  
  Talk as if nothing happened. Everyone makes mistakes.