How you conduct yourself in your relationships often shows whether the relationship will fail or succeed. Take the quiz below to see if you are behaving in the right way or if you are making silly, and avoidable mistakes:
Yes
No
Yes, I've told him/her everything
Yes, but I've left some details out
No, I don't think it has anything to do with him/her
I forgive him / her and try not to bring up past arguments.
I have difficulty forgiving and tend to remind him / her of her past mistakes, especially when he / she makes a similar one.
I hate confrontation and keep the peace to avoid fighting.
If there is a problem, I prefer to deal with it straight away, otherwise it will just get worse.
I let my partner make all the plans - he / she won't want to do what I want to do anyway.
We try to take turns with making plans so we both get a chance to choose.
I get him / her gifts on special occasions but otherwise we do things together to spend quality time.
I think he / she won't like me as much if I don't buy things for them often enough.
Yes, but I don't think I do.
Yes, and I am trying to prioritize better.
No, I think I have balanced my time out quite well.