Am I in a Situationship? Quiz

1. Do you feel that your partner is selfish?

Yes

No

Prefer not to say

I don't know.

2. How often do you and your partner communicate about your feelings?

Rarely, if at all

Sometimes, but it feels unclear.

Frequently, but it’s still new.

Regularly, and we’re very open about it.

3. How do you feel after spending time together?

Confused or unsure about where we stand

Curious, but with some uncertainty

Excited and hopeful about the future

Content and confident in our relationship

4. Have you discussed the future of your relationship?

Never, we avoid those topics.

Briefly, but without clear answers.

Yes, but it’s still in progress.

Yes, we have a clear and mutual understanding.

5. Do you both have the same goals for the future?

Yes

No

Prefer not to say

I am not sure.

6. Do you feel secure about your relationship status?

Not at all, I feel very unsure.

Somewhat, but I have questions.

Mostly, but there are still some things to figure out.

Completely, I feel very secure.

7. How often do you spend time together?

Occasionally, and it’s inconsistent.

Often, but not always with clarity about what we are.

Regularly, and we’re getting closer.

Frequently, and it’s meaningful every time.

8. Do they introduce you to their friends and family?

No, I don’t think they’ve mentioned me.

A few people, but it feels informal.

Yes, and they seem excited about it.

Definitely, and I feel included in their life.

9. When making plans, how involved are they?

They’re usually vague or avoid making plans.

They’re involved but sometimes cancel or reschedule.

They’re consistent and try their best to make time.

They’re fully committed and prioritize our plans.

10. How do they describe your relationship?

They don’t, or they avoid labeling it.

They use vague terms like “hanging out.”

They call it something meaningful but not defined.

They clearly define it as a relationship.

11. How often do they share personal details about themselves?

Rarely, I feel like I don’t know much about them.

Sometimes, but it’s not consistent.

Often, but there’s still more to learn.

Regularly, and they’re very open with me.

12. How do they react when you bring up serious conversations?

They avoid or change the subject.

They listen but don’t give clear answers.

They’re open but sometimes hesitant.

They engage fully and have meaningful discussions.

13. Do you feel your relationship has mutual effort?

No, it feels one-sided.

Somewhat, but I put in more effort.

Mostly, but there’s still room for improvement.

Absolutely, we both contribute equally.

14. Have you been seeing other people?

Yeah

Nope

Sometimes

Prefer not to say

15. How often do you talk about the future?

Frequently

Once in a while

At times

Never

16. Is your partner also seeing other people?

Yeah

No

I am not sure about it.

Prefer not to say

17. How do you feel when they don't reply to your messages quickly?

Anxious and overthinking every minute

Slightly concerned but try to distract myself

I trust they’ll reply when they can.

It doesn’t bother me at all; we respect each other’s space.

18. Do you feel confused about the nature of your relationship?

Yes

No

Sometimes

I am not sure.

19. How often do you meet them?

Almost every day

Monthly

At times

Rarely

20. According to you, how is the growth of your relationship with your significant other?

There is no growth.

There's a lot of growth.

There's some growth.

I am not sure.

Am I In A Situationship? Quiz