Likable Person Test: Am I Likable?

1. There are no available seats and you see an elderly person standing. What do you do?

Continue to sit

Ask the person next to me to offer their seat

I offer them my seat.

I pretend that I do not see them.

2. Do you respect people who are wiser to you?

Of course, I do.

I do respect when I think I need to.

Not really

Why should I respect them?

3. A friend cancels plans due to an emergency or illness, what is your response?

Frustration

No reaction at all

I let them know that they completely wasted my time.

I am understanding, offer aid and wish them well.

4. Do you believe that hard work is more important than skills?

Yes, I do believe.

Aren't both equally important?

Not so sure about this

No! I think quite the opposite.

5. Do you always try to be nice to people who are rude to you?

Yes! I believe in being nice with all the people.

I am nice to a limit.

I am not so nice.

Not at all!

6. If someone tries to take credit for what you did, what will you do?

I will let that person take the credit.

I will tell the truth.

It depends on how much that thing matters to me.

If that person means a lot to me, I won’t react.

7. Have you ever cheated on someone?

Quite a few times

I don’t believe in cheating someone.

I have been cheated.

No! I have never cheated.

8. You see someone breaking the rules at work, what do you do?

Pretend not to see what is going on

Inform upper management to their indiscretion

Advice the coworker that their actions are frowned upon and can lead to job loss

Tell everyone else in the office what I saw

9. Your friend needs to borrow money for an emergency, do you lend them the money?

No

Of course

I would just give them the money; they are having a hard-enough time.

I will help them find someone to loan them the money.

10. A friend has put on a bit of weight. They ask you how they look. What is your reply?

You look just fine.

You look much better this way.

OMG, you are getting kinda big these days.

*Silence*

11. Would you read the emails/text/mail of your significant other?

Not

Of course, I would.

Only if they gave me cause to be suspicious of them.

If they read mine first, theirs would become fair game.

12. How do you typically respond when someone offers you unsolicited advice?

I listen carefully and consider their perspective.

I respond politely but may not take it seriously.

I evaluate whether it benefits me before deciding to respond.

I brush it off or react defensively.

13. When meeting new people, how do you usually behave?

I am warm, open, and genuinely interested in them.

I try to be polite and make light-hearted jokes.

I wait to see if they make an effort before engaging.

I remain distant and avoid revealing too much about myself.

14. How do you react when someone criticizes you?

I take it constructively and work on improving.

I smile but might feel hurt inside.

I only care if the person’s opinion matters to me.

I reject their criticism and defend myself.

15. When entering a room full of people, what do you do first?

Head for the food and drinks

Greet everyone and introduce myself to anyone I do not know.

Immediately leave

Get everyone to focus on me

16. If a server makes a mistake with your order, how do you respond?

I explode and demand that it be fixed.

I calmly explain what is wrong and allow them to offer a solution.

I immediately asked for a manager.

Nothing at all

17. How helpful are you at home?

I come home and immediately veg out on the couch/bed.

I cook and clean a few times a week.

I am extremely helpful.

I do what I am asked and nothing more.

18. What do you do if someone you don't know well asks for a favor?

I gladly help, expecting nothing in return.

I assess the situation but try to help if I can.

I only help if I believe it’s worth my time or effort.

I find a reason to decline or avoid helping.

19. When someone shares their feelings with you, how do you respond?

I empathize and try to support them genuinely.

I listen and offer advice, even if I don’t feel deeply invested.

I’ll listen if I value them; otherwise, I remain neutral.

I may seem uninterested or uncomfortable engaging deeply.

20. What motivates you to maintain friendships?

I value deep, mutual connections and care for others.

I enjoy having people to share fun and light-hearted moments with.

I focus on friendships that are beneficial or reciprocate my efforts.

I don’t feel a strong need for many close relationships.

21. How do you usually express your emotions?

I openly share how I feel with those I trust.

I use humor or casual comments to express my emotions.

I share only when I feel it’s necessary or beneficial.

I rarely express emotions and prefer to keep them private.

22. What's your approach to resolving conflicts with others?

I calmly discuss the issue and seek resolution.

I avoid confrontation but may apologize to keep the peace.

I only address conflicts if they directly affect me.

I tend to ignore the conflict or become defensive.

23. How do you feel about being liked by others?

I find it fulfilling and make an effort to be approachable.

I like being liked but don’t always prioritize it.

I only care about being liked by those I value.

I pretend not to care, but deep down, I want to be liked.

24. How do you handle group activities or team projects?

I eagerly participate and try to make everyone feel included.

I contribute but don’t go out of my way to lead.

I focus on my part and expect others to do the same.

I prefer working alone or struggle to connect with the team.

25. You know a secret about someone. What do you do with that information?

I keep it to myself.

I tell my best friend.

I tell everyone I can, I don’t mean to, I just feel the need to tell.

I wait until they hurt me and use it as ammunition.