Am I Asexual?

1. How well do you relate to this statement: "I don't feel sexually attracted to anyone, ever - regardless of gender or circumstance."

I don't relate to this very much. I experience sexual attraction regularly enough and desire sexual reciprocation from at least one gender.

I relate to this 90% - 100% of the time.

I relate to this most of the time, but there have been a few exceptions.

I relate to this until I'm with someone I've grown attached to, romantically or otherwise.

I feel sexually attracted to people. I don't desire reciprocation of said sexual attraction.

The "Am I Asexual?" quiz is designed to help you better understand your feelings about attraction and sexuality. Asexuality is a sexual orientation where a person experiences little... see moreor no sexual attraction to others.

This asexual test offers a safe and supportive space for individuals to explore their feelings and gain clarity on whether asexuality might be part of their identity. Throughout this quiz, you will answer questions about your romantic and emotional experiences to gain deeper insight into your sexual orientation.

Disclaimer: This quiz is for informational and self-reflection purposes only. It is not intended to diagnose or label anyone’s sexual identity. Please remember to consult with a professional if you need support.
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2. If there's one thing you want in a good relationship, it's...

Companionship

Trust, and good communication!

Emotional connection

Boundaries

Intimacy

3. You meet a stranger whom many would find appealing. How would you feel about this person?

Well! That person is easy on the eyes and has admirable physical attributes.

I might find them cute, but may not be easily attracted.

They are cute, but I need to get to know them better to be attracted to them.

I have the hots for them, but I don't want them to like me back.

I get nervous, my heart starts racing, and I start thinking about them. I want them to notice me.

4. When considering romantic relationships, how important is physical intimacy to you?

Very important

Depends on my emotional connection with them

I am looking for a relationship without physical intimacy.

Not important at all

Not very important

5. How do you approach dating and relationships?

I'm more interested in emotional connections than intimate ones.

I prefer relationships without a strong emphasis on intimacy.

I seek relationships where intimacy is secondary but still valued.

I enjoy both emotional and intimate connections in a relationship.

Sexual compatibility is a significant consideration in my relationships.

6. You start seeing someone you like. However, this person claims to be asexual. They don't want a sexual relationship, and would like to be intimate and do activities that don't involve sex. How do you react?

Sounds like the one for me..

I could roll with that!

That's OK! I may be attracted to them, but it won’t bother me that my sexual feelings are not being reciprocated.

I get it, but I don't think this person would be compatible with me.

Sex is not a primary need for me. I Would rather focus on building an emotional connection with them.

7. In past relationships, how have you typically felt about engaging in physical intimacy?

Enjoyed it and sought it out.

Participated but with less enthusiasm.

Got physically intimate with my partner only when I got to develop a strong bond with them.

Rarely got intimate with my partner

Avoided it altogether

8. What do you fear in a relationship?

My biggest fear is feeling pressured into engaging in sexual activities when I don't feel the need to.

I fear that my partner might misunderstand my lower interest in sex and feel unfulfilled in the relationship.

I worry that my partner might feel rejected or unloved if I don't express sexual attraction frequently.

My biggest fear is that the relationship might become monotonous or lose its spark over time.

My biggest fear is that my partner might become disillusioned or disappointed when they realize I experience sexual attraction but may not always act on it.