Am I Lesbian, Bi Or Straight?

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Have you ever noticed yourself looking at other girls without even thinking about it?
- Yes, I have noticed mostly, and every time I catch myself, I look away.
- No, other than looking at them as friends?
- Yes, that's all I do, and for some odd reason, I'm not into men (or like them less than women).
- No, I don't think so.

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Have you ever kissed a girl, or have you wanted to?
- Yes, but it was at a party, and it was a dare. And I just wanted to see what it was like.
- No, Why on earth would I do that?
- Yes, and I liked it. Or I would really like to.
- No, Umm, maybe once.
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If a lesbian seemed interested in you, what would you do?
- I would apologize to them politely and let them know I don't swing that way.
- I would be friendly with them and maybe even flirt a little. Just to find out what it feels like.
- I would be happy to see where it would lead.
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If the same lesbian was interested and made a move on you, what would you do?
- Go for it.
- I would be super interested.
- Just tell them that I’m not interested.
- Well, I have nothing to lose.
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Have you ever had a crush on someone of the same or opposite gender?
- Same gender
- Opposite gender
- Both same and opposite genders.
- I am just confused.
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How important is the approval and acceptance of friends and family regarding your potential romantic partner's gender?
- It's crucial; their approval significantly influences my choices.
- Somewhat important, but I prioritize my own feelings over others' opinions.
- Not very important; I make decisions based on my own preferences.
- I prefer my friends and family to approve, but it's not a dealbreaker.
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In your past relationships, the majority of your partners have been:
- An equal mix of both genders.
- Opposite gender
- Same gender
- I haven't had any significant relationships yet.
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What do you like about girls?
- Their style, energy, or presence — it's just naturally appealing.
- Their confidence, their vibe — I feel genuinely attracted to them.
- Their personality — I’ve had feelings, but I like guys too.
- We’re just friends — I don’t feel that kind of attraction.
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Have you ever been attracted to a female friend?
- Yes, but I’ve also had strong feelings for guy friends too.
- Definitely not.
- Yes, more than once — it’s something I deeply feel.
- Maybe once — I was unsure how to feel about it.
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What type of relationships do you find most appealing?
- Both heterosexual and homosexual relationships.
- I'm not sure.
- Heterosexual relationships.
- Homosexual relationships.
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In your social circle, most of your close friends are:
- Of the opposite gender.
- Of the same gender.
- An equal mix of both.
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What is your opinion about the opposite gender?
- I’m emotionally and physically drawn to them — they’re my ideal match.
- They’re great as friends, but I’ve never felt more than that.
- I’m open to anyone, but gender isn’t the main thing I focus on.
- I can be romantically interested, but I’m also attracted to my own gender.
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Which gender are you most comfortable with romantically?
- Men
- Women
- Both men and women.
- I am confused.
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14.

Do you like watching TV series/movies with lesbian characters?
- Yes
- I am indifferent.
- Yeah, sometimes.
- Only if the storyline is good.
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What pronouns do you use to describe your ideal romantic partner?
- He/Him
- She/Her
- Any pronouns — I care more about the person than their gender.
- I’m still figuring that out.
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What is your opinion about lesbian love stories?
- They are too engaging. Feels like my own story.
- I find such stories interesting.
- I prefer good love stories. The sexual orientation of the characters doesn’t matter.
- I enjoy love stories of straight couples only.
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Do you fantasize about female celebrities?
- Yes, all the time.
- Nope
- I have a crush on both male and female celebrities.
- I do not have a celebrity crush.
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What do you think is the most crucial factor in a successful relationship?
- Emotional connection and shared values above all.
- Romantic and physical chemistry with women is key for me.
- I’m still figuring out what love feels with women.
- Being able to connect deeply with anyone, regardless of gender.
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Do you feel frustrated about not knowing your sexual orientation?
- Not really.
- Yes! What if I am a lesbian?
- I know exactly what my sexual orientation is. I am a lesbian.
- I know. I am into women.
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