Will You Be Happy With Him/Her?

1. Do you balance and complement each other?

We are opposites. He/she is a morning person who's always up-and-at-'em, while I'm more laidback and like to sleep in late

The strengths and abilities I admire most about him are exactly what I need to develop more in myself.

We bring out the best in each other sometimes, not always.

We are so much alike that we barely ever argue about anything.

2. When you first met?

We didn't have a deep connection, and still kind of feel like strangers sometimes.

It was love at first sight. Something deep inside my soul was ignited.

At least one of us knew right away we were meant for each other.

There were no sparks at first, but now that I have gotten to know them, they are everything I could ask for.

3. Have you ever dreamed about them?

I swear I had dreams about them before we even met.

They are the leading character in most of my dreams.

I dream about guys/girls who are sexier than mine.

I dream about an old flame more often than my new love interest.

4. How did you meet?

We met on an online dating site, and likely wouldn't have met any other way

We met at someone else's wedding, in church or temple, lived in the same building or on the same street.

A close friend or a family member introduced us because they had a hunch we'd be perfect together.

We were high school or college sweethearts, met at work, or were thrown together in another meaningful way.

5. Did you ever get the feeling it was "meant to be"?

I get that feeling certain times, like when I hear "our song" or we have a particularly romantic night together.

I definitely felt we were pushed together for a great purpose.

There were more than enough signs to make me feel that our meeting was no accident.

No harps or lightning bolts, just heart tugs and good times.

6. When we talked about our childhoods

I identified strongly with his feelings about his childhood even though my situation was a lot different.

We had totally different childhoods.

It was like we lived parallel lives, uncanny how similar the family dramas were and how crystal clear it was that we could help each other resolve our pasts

They conquered some of the same childhood issues that I am still struggling with or vise versa.

7. When it comes to how we imagine our future together

Our talents blend together perfectly and we plan to contribute something meaningful to the world together.

It seems that we are together for a higher purpose, but we are still trying to figure out what it is.

In general, we want the same things out of life, because we hold the same values.

We want very different things out of life and it's unlikely we would enjoy working together.

8. Do you two feel in sync with one another?

Neither of us seems to have a clue what the other wants or needs.

Completely. It wouldn't shock me if he surprised me with the gift I was secretly wishing for or returned from the grocery store with the very thing I forgot to put on the list.

It's shocking how many times we finish each other's sentences.

I only get a gut feeling when something is really bothering them.

9. Are there any signs or coincidences that you can't ignore?

We discovered our families already knew each other or there was someone else we knew in common who could have introduced us long before we met.

My dog or cat loved him even before I did.

No signs to speak of.

Our names are very similar, like Joe and Josey, or our car license plates, phones number or addresses are close.

10. What outside input have you gotten about the two of you as a couple?

My friends like the way we look together, but that's about it.

A friend or family member had an important dream about the two of us.

An astrologer, palm or card reader told us we were meant for each other

Everyone says we make a great couple.

11. How perfect do you feel they are for you?

They are everything my mom or dad would have asked for, but I am not sure there the one for me.

There is a strong physical attraction, but they seem more suited for someone else.

We were like best friends from the very beginning and I just know we will be friends for life.

They caused me to discard my "wish list" of ideals and buckle down to love someone who isn't exactly perfect, but who seems perfect for me.