Love Language Survey Sde

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Love Language Survey Sde

Answer the questions to find out your love language for our 19-20 staff retreat.


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I like to receive notes of affirmation

    • B. 

      I like to be hugged

  • 2. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I like to spend one-to-one time with a person who is special to me.

    • B. 

      I feel loved when someone gives practical help to me. 

  • 3. 
    Which do you prefer?  
    • A. 

      I like it when people give me gifts.

    • B. 

      I like leisurely visits with friends and loved ones. 

  • 4. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I feel loved when someone I love or admire puts their arm around me. 

    • B. 

      I feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I love or admire. 

  • 5. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I like to go places with friends and loved ones. 

    • B. 

      I like to high-five or hold hands with people who are special to me. 

  • 6. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I like to be told that I am appreciated. 

    • B. 

      I like for a person to look at me when we are talking. 

  • 7. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I like when people give me cards, flowers, or other small tokens.

    • B. 

      I feel loved when people affirm me. 

  • 8. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      Words of acceptance are important to me. 

    • B. 

      I know someone loves me when they help me. 

  • 9. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      What someone does affects me more than what he or she says. 

    • B. 

      Hugs make me feel connected and valued. 

  • 10. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      Would you help me cook dinner?

    • B. 

      I like going fun places with you!

  • 11. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I've got a surprise for you.

    • B. 

      We can make something really cool together. 

  • 12. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      How did you know how to do that? You're brilliant. 

    • B. 

      I can't wait to give you your present!

  • 13. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      Would you like for me to scratch your back?

    • B. 

      Let's spend the day doing whatever you want to do.

  • 14. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I feel loved when people do things to help me. 

    • B. 

      I feel loved when people give me a reassuring handshake or hug. 

  • 15. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I value praise and try to avoid criticism. 

    • B. 

      Several small gifts mean more to me than one large gift. 

  • 16. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I need physical contact with people everyday. 

    • B. 

      I need words of encouragement and affirmation everyday. 

  • 17. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I know a person is thinking of me when they give me a gift. 

    • B. 

      I feel loved when a person helps me with my chores or tasks. 

  • 18. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention. 

    • B. 

      I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone does some act to serve me. 

  • 19. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I like for people to cross the street to shake hands or hug when they see me. 

    • B. 

      I like when people listen to me, showing genuine interest in what I'm saying. 

  • 20. 
    Which do you prefer?
    • A. 

      I feel loved when someone celebrates my birthday with a gift. 

    • B. 

      I feel loved when someone celebrates my birthday with meaningful words. 

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