Trust Issues Test: Do I Have Trust Issues? Quiz

1. What kind of a superhero are you?

Option 1

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Option 5

2. You lend a significant amount of money to a friend. How do you feel about it?

I'm constantly worried they won't pay me back.

I trust they'll repay me, but I also have a backup plan.

I'm confident they'll pay me back without any issues.

I made sure to get a written agreement just in case.

3. You're in a new romantic relationship. How long does it take you to fully trust your partner?

It takes a very long time, if ever, to fully trust them.

I gradually build trust as they prove themselves trustworthy.

I tend to trust my partner quickly and deeply.

I'm cautiously optimistic and observe their actions carefully.

4. What's your first instinct when someone compliments you?

I assume they have an ulterior motive.

I accept it without question.

I appreciate it but don’t read too much into it.

I feel suspicious and wonder what they really want.

5. If a friend cancels plans at the last minute, what do you assume?

They are lying and just didn’t want to see me.

They must have a good reason, and I don’t take it personally.

I don’t think much about it and just reschedule.

It’s proof that I shouldn’t trust anyone.

6. Someone you recently met tells you a very personal story. What do you think?

I wonder why they're telling me this so soon; it seems suspicious.

I listen empathetically and appreciate their vulnerability.

I feel honored that they trust me enough to share this.

I'm a bit uncomfortable with how quickly they're opening up.

7. Your friend wants to go out with some acquaintances to have a couple of drinks. They are practically strangers to you. What will you do?

No problem

I want them to have fun and keep in touch.

I can't stand it. I fight as soon as they come home.

I will join them instantly.

8. One of your friends tells you your partner is out shopping with another girl/guy. What do you do?

I immediately go there and start a scene.

Don't worry about it. I'm sure they're just friends.

Ask he/she who they were with and ask that they tell me next time.

I will start panicking and follow them.

9. Your friends invite you and your partner out to lunch. You can't go so

They can't go either. My friends are always flirting.

Tell my partner to go ahead and keep in touch.

I insist you go. It's just friends.

I will tell my partner to join them but I will alert him too about my friends habits.

10. Your friend calls. Their car broke down, and they needed some cash to get home.

I will send the money.

No way! Can't do anything about it.

Depends on the friend

I will recall my friend's past activities, then I will decide what to do next.

11. You see a hitchhiker walking in the rain with his kids. What would you do?

Drive right on by

Let them in.

Ask to see some I.D. and ask if they have any weapons. Any refusal and no ride.

Who the hell cares about that?

12. You hear two people that you barely know talking about you. How would you start the conversation?

Approach them and say you heard your name.

Ignore it.

Why are they talking trash? If they have something to say, it should be said to you.

Initially ignore it and if they don't stop the conversation, I will approach them.

13. You are an employer. One of your new employees calls off too sick to come to work. Afterward, you see them out shopping. What would you do?

Fire them!

Ask them why they called off, and ask them not to lie. If it becomes a problem then terminate.

I'm sure there is a good reason.

I will approach them instantly and fire them.

14. An ex calls you who you have no feelings for. How would you react?

I answer and talk about the good old days.

I ignore the call. They must want something.

I answer and see what they want. I feel them out to see if it's harmless.

They can't as I have blocked them.

15. You come home from work early. As you walk in, your partner is hanging up the phone in a hurry.

That's ok. They are just happy to see me.

I ask who they were talking to and explain how it looked.

I grab the phone and hit redial. There's a reason they're so sneaky.

I will start fighting with my partner.

16. Your partner disappears for a few hours. When they return, they tell you they didn't have cell phone service.

Ask them where they were and tell them I was scared.

Drive out to where they said to see if they have service.

That's ok. I hope you had fun.

It has happened thrice already and I can't do anything about it.