Spank/yell/or punish you sternly. Make you apologize to the cashier and are forbidden candy for a month.
Your parent pays for the candy saying "kids!" to the clerk and then gives you the candy bar.
Your parent(s) explains how taking something that isn't yours makes the other person feel and discusses ways to make amends without any shame.
Your parents get angry at you and yell at you.
Spank, Yell, or give me a stern time out as punishment
Roll their eyes at you and clean it up themselves.
Gently describe what they see and what needs to be done ("Looks like there is marker on the wall let's get a towel to clean it up.") Then discusses mutually agreeable ways to have fun writing/painting.
The ignore you as a form of punishment.
You can't get up from the table until you've cleaned your plate.
You can have whatever you want and after some whining mom makes you a different meal
Want you to listen to your body's cues and don't make you eat. You have options for an array of healthy foods when you do feel hungry.
Your parents make sure that you are spanked as a punishment for your tantrums.
Children should be seen and not heard. Speak when spoken too and keep their manners at the table at all times
You do what you want running amok, flinging food, etc. Your parent(s) smile and shrug.
You are allowed to follow your needs but are reminded to think of other's needs to eat their meal, hear the conversation, etc.
Kids are kids, they are allowed to have fun. Even it inconveniences other people.
As the primary form of discipline
Occasionally when your parent(s) reached their limit
Never. Hands are not for hitting.
Almost always in order to keep m behavior in check.
Showed strong disapproval
Showed a resigned "kids will be kids" attitude
Showed a positive attitude that it was an opportunity to learn and grow together as a family
Showed ignorance until I corrected my behavior.
Yes, I am comfortable.
No, I'm not at all comfortable
It depends, but I'm comfortable.
I don't know, I feel scare of my parents judging me.
No, they were too strict.
Yes, but felt like my parents spoiled me.
It depends, I know they love & care but I get scared of them.
No, not at all. I feel distant from my parents
It depends, but maybe
I know I should trust them but I sometimes feel unable to.
Yes, they have.
They have checked my phone but they always ask me.
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