I’m able to just be around my partner.
I get a back rub or massage from my partner.
My partner reacts positively to something I’ve accomplished.
My partner does something for me that I know they don’t particularly enjoy.
My partner and I kiss frequently.
I sense my partner is showing interest in the things I care about.
My partner works on special projects with me that I have to complete.
My partner gives me an exciting gift.
I’m complimented by my partner on my appearance.
My partner takes the time to listen to me and really understand my feelings.
My partner and I share non-sexual touch in public.
My partner offers to run errands for me.
My partner does a bit more than his/her normal share of the responsibilities we share (around the house, work-related, etc).
I get a gift that I know my partner put thought into choosing.
My partner doesn’t check his/her phone while we’re talking.
My partner goes out of their way to do something that relieves pressure on me.
I can look forward to a holiday because of a gift I anticipate receiving.
I hear the words, “I appreciate you” from my partner.
My partner brings me a little gift after he/she has been traveling without me.
My partner takes care of something I’m responsible to do but I feel too stressed to do at the time.
My partner doesn’t interrupt me while I’m talking.
Gift giving is an important part of our relationship.
My partner helps me out when he/she knows I’m already tired.
I get to go somewhere while spending time with my partner.
My partner and I are physically intimate.
My partner gives me a little gift that he/she picked up in the course of their normal day.
My partner says something encouraging to me.
I get to spend time in a shared activity or hobby with my partner.
My partner surprises me with a small token of their appreciation.
My partner and I touch a lot during the normal course of the day.
My partner helps me out - especially if I know they’re already busy.
I hear my partner specifically tell me, “I appreciate you.”
My partner and I embrace after we’ve been apart for a while.
I hear my partner say how much I mean to him/her.
I receive a loving note/text/email for no special reason from my loved one.
My partner and I hug.
I can spend alone time with my partner - just the two of us.
My partner does something practical to help me out.
My partner gives me a little gift as a token of our love for each other.
I get to spend uninterrupted leisure time with my partner.
My partner unexpectedly does something for me like filling my car or doing the laundry.
My partner and I touch.
My partner puts his/her arm around me when we’re in public.
My partner surprises me with a gift.
I’m around my partner, even if we’re not really doing anything.
I hold hands with my partner.
My partner gives me a gift.
I hear “I love you” from my partner.
I sit close to my partner.
I am complimented by my loved one for no apparent reason.