Rarely or never
Occasionally, but it's mostly friendly.
Frequently, with a mix of friendly and flirty messages.
They reach out consistently, expressing their desire to reconnect.
They seem distant and indifferent.
They're polite and friendly, but nothing more.
They maintain prolonged eye contact and show signs of nervousness.
There's undeniable chemistry and a lingering connection.
They don't show much interest or enthusiasm.
They offer casual congratulations.
They genuinely seem happy for you and want to know more.
They go out of their way to celebrate your success and show support.
No, they rarely bring up the past.
Occasionally, but it's in a nonchalant way.
Yes, they often reminisce and bring up specific moments.
They frequently mention the past and express nostalgia for your relationship.
They don't seem to care or show any reaction.
They're curious but don't express any jealousy.
They show signs of discomfort or act possessive.
They become visibly upset or try to interfere with your new relationship.
Occasionally, but it's mostly neutral or unrelated to feelings.
Yes, they've mentioned positive things and possible interests.
They've shared multiple instances of your ex expressing their lingering feelings.
No, they haven't mentioned anything significant.
Indifferent or uninterested.
Mostly comfortable, but not much excitement.
There's a sense of tension and unresolved emotions.
There's a spark and a strong emotional connection.
Occasionally, but it's more of a friendly gesture.
Yes, they've offered consistent support and assistance.
They've made significant sacrifices or gestures to help you, even without being asked.
No, they rarely show any extra effort.
They dismiss the idea and change the topic.
They're open to the idea but hesitant.
They show genuine excitement and enthusiasm.
They express a strong desire to rebuild the relationship.
Minimal to none
Casual and inconsistent
Consistent and interested, but not intense.
Intense and focused, like they can't let go.
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