Was My Ex a Narcissist? Quiz

1. How did your ex behave in social situations with friends and family?

They were friendly, respectful, and engaged positively with others.

They seemed reserved or disinterested in socializing.

They often belittled or criticized others, including friends and family.

They sought attention, dominated conversations, or made everything about them.

Welcome to the "Was My Ex a Narcissist? Quiz." This insightful quiz aims to help you reflect on your past relationship and identify potential narcissistic traits in your... see moreex-partner. Answer the following questions honestly based on your experiences, and gain valuable insights into the dynamics of your past relationship. Explore aspects like charm, empathy, entitlement, and communication to assess whether your ex exhibited signs commonly associated with narcissistic behavior.

Keep in mind that this quiz is not a diagnostic tool but rather a self-reflection exercise. If you find yourself resonating with several indicators, it might be helpful to seek support from friends, family, or a mental health professional. Remember, understanding past patterns can contribute to personal growth and pave the way for healthier future relationships.
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2. How did your ex handle moments when you needed emotional support?

They were attentive, empathetic, and offered support willingly.

They provided support, but it seemed somewhat detached or obligatory.

They dismissed your emotions or made it about their own struggles.

They showed little to no interest in providing emotional support.

3. How did your ex handle moments of vulnerability or emotional intimacy?

They were open, supportive, and shared their own vulnerabilities.

They were somewhat reserved but generally receptive to emotional intimacy.

They were dismissive or critical of your vulnerabilities, avoiding sharing their own.

They avoided emotional intimacy altogether or became uncomfortable with vulnerability.

4. How did your ex handle compliments or praise directed towards you?

They graciously accepted compliments and shared in your joy.

They accepted compliments but seemed somewhat indifferent.

They downplayed or dismissed compliments directed towards you.

They reacted negatively, becoming jealous or seeking to overshadow your achievements.

5. How did your ex-partner typically react when faced with criticism or disagreement?

They would calmly discuss the issue and try to find a resolution.

They would become defensive and might blame others for the problem.

They would ignore the criticism and pretend it didn't bother them.

They would apologize and make an effort to change their behavior.

6. How did your ex-partner handle success or achievements, whether theirs or yours?

They were genuinely happy and supportive.

They downplayed their achievements to avoid attention.

They often bragged about their successes and sought constant validation.

They celebrated achievements but remained humble.

7. Did your ex-partner often exhibit signs of entitlement?

Rarely or never.

Occasionally, but not excessively.

Frequently demanded special treatment or privileges.

They believed they deserved special treatment in most situations.

8. How did your ex-partner maintain relationships with others, including friends and family?

They had healthy and positive relationships with those around them.

They were somewhat distant but maintained a few close connections.

They had difficulty maintaining long-term relationships and often had conflicts.

They had a tendency to manipulate and control others in their relationships.

9. How did your ex-partner handle conflicts within the relationship?

They were open to communication and compromise.

They often escalated conflicts and made it about them.

They avoided conflicts altogether, often sweeping issues under the rug.

They were willing to work on issues and find solutions together.

10. How did your ex handle disagreements or conflicts in the relationship?

They were open to discussion and sought resolutions together.

They tended to avoid conflict or withdraw during disagreements.

They often blamed you for conflicts, making it feel like it was always your fault.

They became defensive, attacked your character, or escalated minor issues.