Was My Ex a Narcissist? Quiz

They would calmly discuss the issue and try to find a resolution.

They would become defensive and might blame others for the problem.

They would ignore the criticism and pretend it didn't bother them.

They would apologize and make an effort to change their behavior.

They were genuinely happy and supportive.

They downplayed their achievements to avoid attention.

They often bragged about their successes and sought constant validation.

They celebrated achievements but remained humble.

Rarely or never.

Occasionally, but not excessively.

Frequently demanded special treatment or privileges.

They believed they deserved special treatment in most situations.

They had healthy and positive relationships with those around them.

They were somewhat distant but maintained a few close connections.

They had difficulty maintaining long-term relationships and often had conflicts.

They had a tendency to manipulate and control others in their relationships.

They were open to communication and compromise.

They often escalated conflicts and made it about them.

They avoided conflicts altogether, often sweeping issues under the rug.

They were willing to work on issues and find solutions together.

They were open to discussion and sought resolutions together.

They tended to avoid conflict or withdraw during disagreements.

They often blamed you for conflicts, making it feel like it was always your fault.

They became defensive, attacked your character, or escalated minor issues.

They were friendly, respectful, and engaged positively with others.

They seemed reserved or disinterested in socializing.

They often belittled or criticized others, including friends and family.

They sought attention, dominated conversations, or made everything about them.

They were attentive, empathetic, and offered support willingly.

They provided support, but it seemed somewhat detached or obligatory.

They dismissed your emotions or made it about their own struggles.

They showed little to no interest in providing emotional support.

They were open, supportive, and shared their own vulnerabilities.

They were somewhat reserved but generally receptive to emotional intimacy.

They were dismissive or critical of your vulnerabilities, avoiding sharing their own.

They avoided emotional intimacy altogether or became uncomfortable with vulnerability.

They graciously accepted compliments and shared in your joy.

They accepted compliments but seemed somewhat indifferent.

They downplayed or dismissed compliments directed towards you.

They reacted negatively, becoming jealous or seeking to overshadow your achievements.