Am I Trustworthy Quiz: Check How Reliable You Are to Others

1. A close friend tells you a deeply personal secret. What do you do?

Keep it completely private — it's not my story to tell.

Keep it mostly to myself but might mention it to my partner.

Share it only if I think it's relevant to someone else's situation.

It depends — some secrets are too interesting not to share.

2. You promise to help a colleague with a project, but something more fun comes up. What do you do?

Honor my commitment — a promise is a promise.

Help my colleague first, then join the fun if there's time.

Try to reschedule with my colleague and hope they understand.

Go have fun — my colleague will manage without me.

3. How often do you arrive on time to commitments?

Almost always — punctuality is a form of respect.

Usually, but I have my off days.

It depends on how important the commitment feels to me.

I'm often late — time management is a real struggle for me.

4. You made a mistake that affected someone else. What's your reaction?

Own it immediately, apologize sincerely, and make it right.

Admit it eventually, though I might hesitate at first.

Apologize but also explain why it wasn't entirely my fault.

Hope nobody notices and move on quietly.

5. A friend asks for your honest opinion on something they worked hard on, but it's not great. What do you say?

Give honest, kind feedback — they deserve the truth to grow.

Focus mostly on the positives and gently hint at improvements.

Tell them it's great — I don't want to hurt their feelings.

Change the subject to avoid the awkwardness altogether.

6. How do you handle it when you can't keep a promise you made?

Contact the person right away, explain honestly, and offer to make it up.

Let them know as soon as I realize, even if it's last minute.

Send a quick message and hope they're not too upset.

Hope they forget about it or figure it out on their own.

7. When someone confides in you, what goes through your mind?

I feel honored and take the responsibility of their trust very seriously.

I want to help and try my best to be supportive and discreet.

I listen carefully but sometimes find it hard to keep things to myself.

I get a little uncomfortable — I'm not great at holding space for others.

8. How consistent is your behavior when no one is watching versus when people are?

Exactly the same — I act with integrity regardless of who's watching.

Pretty consistent, though I might cut a few corners when alone.

I'm more careful when others are watching, honestly.

Quite different — I tend to do what's easiest when no one's around.

9. A rumor is going around about someone you know. What do you do?

Refuse to spread it and defend the person if I can.

Don't spread it, but I might listen to what others say.

Share it with just one or two close people — it's not really spreading.

Pass it along — it's just conversation and probably harmless.

10. How would the people closest to you describe your reliability?

Completely dependable — they'd say I always come through.

Mostly reliable, with the occasional slip-up.

Reliable when it suits me, but unpredictable at times.

Probably not the first person they'd call in a pinch.