"You made me mad when you cheat."
"It makes me mad when you do that."
"I feel mad when the rules are not followed."
"You cheat at games."
The teacher got to know Jesse.
Jesse had gotten to know other students.
Jesse raised his hand more.
Jesse was older.
Points of view
Think of many solutions in a short time.
Solve a problem.
Decide on a solution.
Argue with someone.
Will it be fun?
Is it safe?
Will it be shorter?
Tell Ryan about everything he likes to do.
Tell Ryan about school.
Ask Ryan questions about himself.
Ask Ryan whom he likes in class.
"This makes me mad."
"I should hit a pillow."
"I'm not going to put up with this."
"I can handle this."
Why his dad is being mean
If he could just do the job better
Another job he could do instead
If he has to wash the dishes over again.
Act as if she doesn't hear the names.
Call the other girls names.
Get an older kid to beat the kid up.
Take 3 deep breaths
Scream and yell
Count backwards slowly
Think nice thoughts