Overtime I have heard about a lot of proposals being turned down due to the poor approach people go about proposing their feelings to their loved ones. The first thing you need to know is that every proposal you are willing to make to someone you love should be based on love. If there is no emotional link between the two of you, don't even try and propose to her. A sincere relationship should start by knowing each other. You start this with friendship, this will give you the chance to each other better and both of you will be more connected emotionally. Try every possible means to know a lot of things about the person you claim you love.
Most girls will naturally accept your proposal when they are amazed about the manner you seem to know some things about them. Another thing is to be sure of her feelings towards you. Let her see you as someone she can confide in. And most importantly, give your friendship the quality time it deserves. Finally, if you can diligently follow everything I've stated, she won't have any other choice than to say yes when you finally propose.
To know whether you are becoming more obsessed with your partner is very easy to spot. The first thing you will notice is that you can't control yourself over him/her; like you literally find yourself thinking about your partner almost every time. Another feeling you will be having is for the person to stay beside you constantly. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever caught yourself stalking your partner on the social media? If your answer is yes, definitely, you are becoming more obsessed with your partner.
The feeling is easy to understand like you want to know if your partner is online so you can start chatting. And when it seems like your partner is not replying on time, you fire getting very uneasy and paranoid. Another thing you will begin to notice is that you are not always happy whenever another opposite sex is around your partner. Finally, while being obsessed with your partner might be a good thing; at least it shows you care so much about the person. However, it should be done with caution.
I have always told people that what will make a relationship lasts forever is not only in the number of sweet words you say to one another; at times, when you touch your partner, and you hold them very close, a feeling of deep intimacy will start growing.
Deep intimacy is needed between two partners because that is the only thing that will make you feel incomplete without them; you'll always want them by your side. I have read, and I have heard from people saying when two partners cuddle a lot, it makes them feel better and happier.
It will interest you to know that a lot of women prefer cuddling to sex. Sex is just for a limited time, but you can embrace your partner affectionately and stay like that for several hours, especially during the cold period. When you cuddle your wife, you can go deeper by kissing her, and you can equally run your hands on her skin.
Getting over someone you once had a relationship with is a big task, especially when such a person had almost everything you have always wished to find in a partner. While getting over your ex-partner may not come very easily, a lot of things will indicate that you have finally gotten over him or her.
One of the top signs is that you no longer feel any need to get in touch with your ex, either through calls or messages. It is not that you are preventive, or you are forcing yourself not to talk to him or her, but it is just that you now find it easy to live without their presence or sound around you.
Another top sign is that you always feel happy when both of you meet without first thinking about anything you had together in the past. Another top sign is that you don't feel pained or find yourself being disturbed emotionally when you see your ex with another person or a new partner.
What the majority of people are doing today is that they are seriously searching for someone that will complete them or someone to be called their better half. If this is actually your own mind about the relationship, then you might end up being too dependent on your partner.
One of the top signs that will indicate this is when you have come to the point that you practically don't have time for yourself, but rather you are ready to spend a lot of time with your partner. The moment some people enter into a relationship, they start shutting doors at friends and relatives.
The only person they now talk to is their new partner. Another top sign is that you have successfully made your partner your only source of everything. At times, you won't be able to do things until you see your partner. A lot of people have freely given their time out to their partner, and whenever it seems they are not getting the same attention, they start feeling sad.
The right answer to this question actually depends on what people want for themselves. But to me, I won't advise anyone to initiate a relationship, when you know your partner won't marry you. It is basically a waste of time and resources. When you consider the totality of what you are going to give that relationship, then you should give it a second thought. Also, I won't advise anybody that needs a serious relationship to do such; it is time-wasting, and you're definitely going to regret it in the long run.
However, I'm fully aware of the fact that the word 'dating' has so much lost its meaning, especially among young ones. For young ones, attempting such is never a problem. Dating people of the opposite sex will broaden your knowledge about what it looks like to be relating to the opposite sex, and it will help you to know more about them.
A relationship is a relation of truth. You may think that you can hide your feelings and continue the relation even when you do not love him or her. However, this can lead to fights, depression and even cheating later on. A far better and fair option for your Boyfriend or girlfriend is to tell them the truth.
Help them move on, rather than frustrating them with your loveless words. This is unfair for both you and them. Yes, they will be hurt in the start, but considering the turmoil they will go through in the future, it is kinder to do so.
Flirting has many health benefits for real. They help release the happy neurotransmitters, which are beneficial for promoting a good mood and boost self-confidence. Flirting is god when you are not in a relationship. However, you can still flirt with your spouse even if you are in a relation. This helps boost mutual positivity. It also keeps the love and the fun aspect of your relation alive and blazing.
This is very important to prevent the relation from dying down and each partner losing interest. A little flirt over the dining table, while cooking or in the car makes your spouse realize they are still attractive as before and helps boost your happiness levels too.
When you love someone, you are emotionally attached to him or her. You get addicted to their presence. Their daily texts, habits and activities become part of your life. You start liking the routine that you build with your lover. Their scent becomes yours and their voice becomes a regular hymn.
Letting go of a person means changing all these little things. You need to incorporate hundreds of changes. Many of your habits are associated with your spouse and they change too. Your entire day transforms suddenly and so does your life. It is difficult to accept this change. This is why it is so hard to move on.
The most common reason for breakup is lack of trust. Partners fail to trust their spouses, which leads to fights and arguments. Slowly, the intimate bond is shattered by stones of doubt, which infiltrate into the mind and damage the love for each other. Lack of trust can translate into possessiveness, jealousy or lack of dependability. It can take any number of forms, which slowly become intolerable.
The best way to avoid his is to actually sit down and figure out the cause. Is there actual evidence to the problem or is it something that you have made up in your mind. Giving each other time and space is one of the best ways that couples can avoid this problem.