Which Tier Is Your Relationship In?

No, I have everything I need, no one could come close

No, I may be more conventionally compatible with someone else but no one can come close to making me feel the way my partner does

Yes, sometimes when we fight or break up, which is often

Yes, I often wonder if I could have more passion and excitement with someone else

Yes, and I think my partner does too, neither of us is committed for the long haul

Completely safe and fulfilled; physically, emotionally, and intellectually

Giddy with happiness and lucky to have found my partner

Safe and secure but not entirely fulfilled

It depends on the day, some days I'm really happy with my partner, other days I can't stand them

Satisfied at this particular time in my life but I might want more in the future

A deep passionate love, common goals and values, and a consistent respect and admiration for each other

Common goals and values, a commitment to make a stable home

A mutal need for something the other has to offer at this time in our lives

A sense that we would be lost without the other

A deep passionate love, and we are too happy to think about the things we don't share

My partner is my soul twin, the thought of not being with them feels completely foreign and unnatural

We want the same things out of life and are extremely compatible

I can't live without them

Although it works for now, I can't see spending the rest of my life with my partner

We have made it this far, we still thrill and adore each other, and we both want the same things in life

Having a magical beginning, consistently joyful and emotionally, physically and intellectually satisfying, we've settled down but the spark is stilll there

Tumultuous beginning, repeated break ups and reconcilations, painful fights and disapproval from friends/and or family

Tepid beginning, slow growing mutual love and committment, stable consistent lifestyle

Magical beginning, natural affinity for eachother, uncertainty about practical compatibility for the future

Mutual attraction to some quallity, trait or characteristic of the other, exciting and/or consistently interesting, uncertain about future compatability under changed circumstances

Don't worry; even if they're attractive, it's unlikely that they would ever have the type of connection that we share

Worry; I am intensely jealous of my partner, as they are of me

Worry; I have always felt that I was easily replaceable, or, not worry, I feel that my partner is replaceable if they did wrong by me

Don't worry; I know what we share is irreplaceable and my partner has shown he or she can be trusted time and time again

Don't worry; my partner would never do anything to disrupt our relationship, if only because we have so much invested in our lives together

I liked them a lot but the connection definetely wasn't electric

It was amazing; gettting to know each other was effortless because I felt like I already knew them

I was immediately attracted to something about them, i.e.:their appearance, their status, their possesions

I felt an intense attraction but saw a lot of red flags

Getting to know each other was effortless and everything we do with each other contiues to be easy

Yes; my life would be ripped apart, and I would have intense feelings of anger and resentment towards my partner if they ended things

No; even if he or she ended things for some reason, I will always have love for them

Maybe; I depend on my partner for security and stability, I'd be very angry at them for leaving me alone to straighten out all the details

No; I don't think they would ever leave me, but if they did I still could never hate them no matter how much it hurt

No; my feelings for my partner don't run deep enough for me to have that intense a feeling for them

Until I meet someone else

I will never "get over" him or her, he or she will always be a part of me

It depends, there are so many practical issues to resolve. I suppose I would get over it whenever I got used to not being a "couple" and/or until I met someone new

I don't think we will break up but if we did I would still love my partner until the day I die

It would take me a long time to get over because my partner is so central to my existence

Break up with them and find someone who shared your goals

Be confused, but probably know that it wouldn't be healthy to bring children into your relationship because it's so tumultuous

Be very conflicted but would find a way to be ok with whatever you both decided because losing your partner would be too devestating and you have so many other things bonding you

Have a very difficult decision to make, it would crush you to lose your partner because you've never felt this way about someone before, but you'd have to decide what you could and could not live with

Probably break up with him or her, unless the benefits your partner provided outweighed whatever you would lose in going along with their decision