What Is Your Communication Style?

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What Is Your Communication Style?

We all have our own unique ways of communicating. Some of us think we are excellent at listening and at sharing, but may not be as good as we think! Some of us know we are lacking in some areas of communication, but aren't sure what exactly it is that we need to do!This test uses some very specific keys to reveal your unique communication style. This is ONLY for those that can handle the truth! Remember, the more we learn about ourselves the better we become!If you would like some live advice or have questions or issues, feel free to click here: ANSWERS LIVE Start the test below. . . . Answer honestly. . . . And remember self improvement is good for all of us!


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Your partner says something that immediately hurts your feelings....
    • A. 

      You tell your partner that your feelings were hurt and ask if what you heard is really what they meant

    • B. 

      You say nothing and act as if nothing happened

    • C. 

      You immediately get upset and combative wanting to know why they would say such a thing

  • 2. 
    You are starting a new job and are very nervous and concerned about the change, how do you let your partner know?
    • A. 

      They should just know, after all we are partners, they should ask me about it

    • B. 

      Tell your partner that you are scared and then drop it

    • C. 

      Tell your partner that this change is scaring you and you need to talk about it

  • 3. 
    You and your partner are driving to a new place and get lost
    • A. 

      Blame your partner for not getting accurate directions

    • B. 

      Mention that you are lost and hope your partner does something about it

    • C. 

      Say that you are lost and need to call for directions so you are not later than you need to be

  • 4. 
    Your partner wants the two of you to go out with people you do NOT like
    • A. 

      You say ok because you know your partner wants to

    • B. 

      You say no and are upset because your partner knows you don't like these people

    • C. 

      You suggest doing something else because you do want to go out but you want both of you to have fun

  • 5. 
    You are both stressed out about money, but your partner comes home with a frivolous item that you KNOW they didn't need
    • A. 

      You mention that money is tight but say nothing more

    • B. 

      You mention that money is tight and ask why your partner felt this purchase was important

    • C. 

      You mention that money is tight and accuse your partner of not caring as much as you do

  • 6. 
    Your partner is talking to someone else and you hear them say they didn't like the chicken you cooked last night.  Do you...
    • A. 

      Say nothing, everyone has their own taste, you just won't make it ever again

    • B. 

      Tell your partner that you heard them and ask if there is a different way they prefer it cooked

    • C. 

      Tell your partner that you heard them and are upset that they didn't tell you

  • 7. 
    You know your partner is dealing with a sensitive issue that is close to their heart, but they won't talk about it, what do you do?
    • A. 

      Approach the topic by telling your partner that you care and are concerned. That you want to help them with the problem

    • B. 

      Approach your partner and ask why they won't talk to you, question their communication style

    • C. 

      Leave your partner alone, if he/she wants to talk about it they will

  • 8. 
    While talking to your partner it becomes clear that they totally misunderstood what you just said....
    • A. 

      It's fine, they don't have to understand your meanings all the time

    • B. 

      You get upset and tell your partner that they never listen

    • C. 

      Tell your partner that you think you said it wrong, and say it a different way

  • 9. 
    You think your partner is mad at you, but you don't know why
    • A. 

      You ask your partner if something has upset them and if there is anything you can do to help

    • B. 

      You avoid your partner hoping they will get over whatever it is soon

    • C. 

      You ask your partner why they are mad and what the heck you did wrong this time

  • 10. 
    Your partner leaves the cap off the toothpaste for the millionth time, they know this really bugs you!
    • A. 

      You put the cap back on and feel like they just don't care about your feelings

    • B. 

      You put the cap back on and mention to your partner that the toothpaste got all dried out again with a smile

    • C. 

      You throw the cap and the toothpaste at your partner and expect them to get the point