The Relationship Farm

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The Relationship Farm

Certified Relationship Coach and Owner/Operator of Maze of Love, created the Relationship Farm to help men and women better understand how they show up in the dating world. The questions from the quiz revolve around 8 key areas of relationships to include communication, sex and social comforts. What animal are you on the farm and what does that mean about your dating and relationships tendencies?


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    What Gender Are You?
    • A. 

      Man

    • B. 

      Woman

  • 2. 
    When I walk into a party with my significant other:
    • A. 

      I am okay sitting on the couch and people watching.

    • B. 

      I will mix and mingle or I may stay with my partner.

    • C. 

      Party? Okay. I guess if we’re going I’ll be in that corner over there.

    • D. 

      I have arrived. Let’s play.

  • 3. 
    In Conflict:
    • A. 

      Let’s just get to the matter at hand.There's no point in avoiding the hard discussion or letting things fester.

    • B. 

      Let's get to the matter at hand. I will engage while being mindful of my words and tone. My partner's feelings matter.

    • C. 

      Maybe we get to the matter at hand or maybe it's not a 'matter' worth getting to. Sometimes, things that seem like issues really aren't issues.

    • D. 

      I would like to get to the matter at hand but it may take me awhile. I do not like confrontation.

  • 4. 
    For my partner’s birthday or Christmas:
    • A. 

      I know what to buy because I am a mindful partner.

    • B. 

      I know what to buy because my partner gave me list after list.

    • C. 

      I sometimes don't know what to buy because I just don’t remember everything they want.

    • D. 

      I sometimes don't know what to buy because honestly, they seem to have everything and it’s hard to get into.

  • 5. 
    In Communication:
    • A. 

      I like daily communication, in all forms. It makes me feel connected and thought of.

    • B. 

      I like communication. Although it doesn’t need to be daily, it should be 3-4 times a week.

    • C. 

      I like communication and for me it’s quality over quantity or frequency.

    • D. 

      I like communication and my partner and I will do so as needed.

  • 6. 
    In Maintenance:
    • A. 

      I believe I’m Low maintenance because I’m confident and don’t need attention or superlatives to make me feel needed or wanted.

    • B. 

      I believe I’m High maintenance because I give my all and am very mindful and active in assessing and expecting reciprocation.

    • C. 

      I believe I’m Low maintenance because I’m happy just giving.

    • D. 

      I believe I’m High maintenance because I know what I want and can be aggressive in seeking it.

  • 7. 
    In Awareness:
    • A. 

      When it comes to my partner and our relationship, I tend to be connected to the things that are said and not said.

    • B. 

      When it comes to my partner and our relationship, I tend to be connected to the things that are said.

  • 8. 
    In Unselfishness:
    • A. 

      I give emphatically. It’s never about me.

    • B. 

      I give emphatically. It’s never about me and sometimes it’s about mutual reciprocation.

    • C. 

      I give. It’s not always the first thing that crosses my mind.

    • D. 

      I give. It’s not often the first thing that crosses my mind.

  • 9. 
    In Attentiveness:
    • A. 

      Attentiveness is just natural to me.

    • B. 

      Attentiveness can sometimes make me feel whipped or less than my partner.

    • C. 

      Attentiveness is situational. Sometimes we make everything a production.

    • D. 

      Attentiveness is natural to me and it’s important to me that it goes both ways.

  • 10. 
    I tend to fall:
    • A. 

      Fast.

    • B. 

      Often.

    • C. 

      Deeply.

    • D. 

      Slowly.

    • E. 

      None of these answers.

  • 11. 
    Love is like oxygen
    • A. 

      True.

    • B. 

      False.

  • 12. 
    If I had to pick just one, I would say that this form of intimacy is more meaningful to me than the others
    • A. 

      Physical.

    • B. 

      Intellectual.

    • C. 

      Emotional.

  • 13. 
    I refuse to go to bed angry
    • A. 

      True.

    • B. 

      False.

  • 14. 
    If I found out my partner was cheating on me, my gut reaction would be to:
    • A. 

      Break up with them immediately.

    • B. 

      Find out how they did it.

    • C. 

      Cuss them out before looking for the person they cheated on me with.

    • D. 

      Find out why they did it.

  • 15. 
    Which of these habits annoys you more than the others?
    • A. 

      Someone that does not give to the same level as I do.

    • B. 

      Someone that let's me walk all over them.

    • C. 

      Someone that loses their temper too easily.

    • D. 

      Someone that takes advantage of me.