What's Your Love Language?
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- 1.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like to receive encouraging or affirming notes
- B.
I like to be hugged
- 2.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like to spend one-to-one time with close friends
- B.
I feel loved when someone gives me practical help
- 3.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like it when people give me gifts
- B.
I like leisurely visits with friends and loved ones
- 4.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I feel loved when people do things to help me
- B.
I feel loved when people give me a reassuring hand shake or hug
- 5.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I feel loved when someone I love or admire puts their arm around me
- B.
I feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I admire or love
- 6.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like to go places with friends or loved ones
- B.
I like to high-five or slap around with friends who are special to me
- 7.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
Visible symbols of love (such as gifts) are important to me
- B.
I feel loved when people affirm me
- 8.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like to sit close to people I enjoy being around
- B.
I like it when people tell me I’m attractive/handsome
- 9.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like to spend time with friends and loved ones
- B.
I like to receive little gifts from friends and loved ones
- 10.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
Words of acceptance are important to me
- B.
I know someone loves me when he or she helps me
- 11.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I know someone loves me when he or she helps me
- B.
I like it when kind words are spoken to me
- 12.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
What someone does affects me far more than what they say
- B.
Hugs make me feel connected and valued
- 13.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I value praise and try to avoid criticism
- B.
Several small gifts mean more to me than one large gift
- 14.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I feel close to someone when we are talking or doing something together
- B.
I feel closer to friends & loved ones when we wrestle, hug or shake hands
- 15.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like for people to complement my achievements
- B.
I know people love me when they do things for me they don't enjoy doing
- 16.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like for people to cross the street to shake hands or hug when they see me
- B.
I like when people listen to me & show genuine interest in what I'm saying
- 17.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I feel loved when friends and loved ones help me with jobs or projects
- B.
I really enjoy receiving gifts from friends and loved ones
- 18.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like for people to complement my appearance
- B.
I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings
- 19.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I feel secure when a special person is physically close to me
- B.
Acts of service make me feel loved
- 20.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I appreciate the many things that special people do for me
- B.
I like to receive gifts that special people make for me
- 21.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone gives me undivided attention
- B.
I really enjoy the feeling I get when someone does some act to serve me
- 22.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with a gift
- B.
I feel loved when a person celebrates my birthday with meaningful words
- 23.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I know a person is thinking of me when they give me a gift
- B.
I feel loved when a person helps me with my chores or tasks
- 24.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me
- B.
I appreciate it when someone remembers special days with a gift
- 25.For each pair of statements, select the ONE answer that fits best within your relationship. *if you are not currently in a relationship, try to imagine how you would like to be treated if you were or think about how you like to be treated by family and friends.
- A.
I like knowing loved ones are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks
- B.
I enjoy extended trips with someone who is special to me
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