What Is Your Attachment Style?

49 Questions | Total Attempts: 31

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Relationship Quizzes & Trivia

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Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Sometimes everything's going well with my loved one and yet I feel some unspecified sense of dread
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 2. 
    I have times when I jump up or flinch when my loved one approaches me without me seeing them.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 3. 
    Sometimes I go cold and cutting with sarcasm - often with negative consequences for my relatiosnhips.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 4. 
    It takes me a while to start trusting anyone. Even then, I would not be surprised to be backstabbed in a relationship.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 5. 
    Sometimes I want - and do - step away to avoid others' even accidental touch or brushing against me or avoid it in other ways. Unless it's someone I know really, really well.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 6. 
    When really stressed I can go all foggy and floaty in my head - it's like everything falls to pieces around me and I can't get any grasp on anything solid.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 7. 
    Eye contact can be uncomfortable for me. I try to make sure it does not get too much for me.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 8. 
    I have times when I go 0 to 100 in a second if you rub me the wrong way.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 9. 
    If we fall out, moving on is the way forward. I don't believe on dwelling on the past.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 10. 
    I inisist on things being done my way as I often know what's right for all of us.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 11. 
    I don't remember much from my childhood except for facts and figures.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 12. 
    When my loved one starts talking feelings, I either get bored or zone out quite quick.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 13. 
    I believe both people in the couple must have separate interests and pursuits. Enmeshment is not my thing.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 14. 
    In my spare time, I like doing my own thing, sometimes in my own room and to know my loved one is in the house doing their own thing or at least available
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 15. 
    When my relationships end, at first, it's a relief. Freedom!
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 16. 
    I get tired, annoyed or cranky when my loved one has intense feelings. I tend to offer solutions as there's no gain in ruminating.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 17. 
    Keeping in touch with people is something that easily slips off my list. My loved one takes on more of our social scheduling.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 18. 
    I need my alone time and space to do well.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 19. 
    Too much physical contact and I get touched out.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 20. 
    When my close relationship is over and I get more breathing space, it is easy for me to remember the things that were not working in this relationship.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 21. 
    Drawn-out good-byes aren't my thing. I prefer a clean getaway, as quick as possible, whether it is parting for a day or a business trip.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 22. 
    Working on a project or things together with my loved one can be frustrating. I can get so much more done and finished if I do it by myself!
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 23. 
    I believe in privacy and personal space. I do not need to tell everything to my loved one. There is such thing as too much information, no?
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 24. 
    I want to be sure that my loved one can cope with anything by themselves like I do.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 25. 
    I just don't get enough from my loved one. Relationships are a one-way street.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False