A Man's Actions Versus His Words: Can You Tell The Difference?
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DreamGirls doing The Rules must learn to focus ONLY on a man's ACTIONS and ignore his words (until he says, "Will you marry me? "). Take this quiz to practice telling the difference and empower yourself to translate mens' words into white noise so you can REALLY see his actions to tell if he's really into you.
- 1.Which of the below phrases represent empty WORDS rather than real action by a man you are dating?
- A.
I wish I could see you on Saturday Night but I have my son on Sundays and don't like to stay out late the night before.
- B.
I'll pick you up at your place at 8 p.m. this Saturday Night.
- C.
Hi. The toll bridge is out between my place and yours-just checked the news. I'll be by at 8:30 instead of 8:00 because I'm going to have to take the ferry instead to pick you up. Call me back and let me know you got this message.
- 2.Fill in the blank with the correct DreamGirl response.Dude:"Hi DreamGirl! Would you like to drive over to my house and we can watch a movie on my sofa this Saturday Night?"DreamGirl: "Oh, hi Dude. Gosh...
- 3.A guy has been calling you every week since he approached you at a music event three weeks ago. He took you to dinner for the D1 (picked you up at the coffee shop around the corner from your apartment-your preference!), then he picked you up in your lobby for the D2 and took you to a play and then out for dinner on a Friday night and now he's asking you for a D3.Which one is the correct DreamGirl response to his D3 offer for a Sunday afternoon Football party at his friends' house? (They are a married couple and really want him to get married too! He's told you this already). He has not asked you for any other dates for the week. He is calling you on a Tuesday night around 7:30 pm.Him:"Would you like to come with me to my friends' Football party this Sunday? It's an annual tradition and I'd really like to introduce you to them! They live pretty close to you too. You could meet us there. Wear Blue and White!"
- A.
DreamGirl: "Oh, wow! That sounds fun. I'd love to meet them too. Tell me their address so I can google it! Should I bring some food or beer?"
- B.
DreamGirl: "Oh, wow. How fun! I love football. Thanks, but I don't really want to meet you over there."
- C.
DreamGirl: "Oh, wow. (1...2....3....4....5...)Thanks! Gosh, I'd love to but I already have plans for Sunday. Oops! There's someone at my door, gotta run. Have a good night, okay? Bye!"
- 4.A man says any of the following things to you after he's taken you out on about six dates. You've done TRs about 50-50. He's only taken you out on one Saturday Night and you had to twist his arm to come pick you up. What should you do if he says:"I think you're really great, I really do. I'm just in a weird place right now and need some time to clear my head.""I'm so afraid of losing you. You're so beautiful and I want you so bad. You're so mysterious and I'm so worried all the time that there's some other guy trying to steal you away from me. I think I just need some space so I can learn to truly value you. I don't want to do anything I might regret in a panic.""Look, I'm tired of having to do all the work for our dates. When are you going to pitch in and do your fair share?"
- A.
If a man said any of the above things to me, I would cuddle up to him and let him know that I'm there for him and that he can trust me.
- B.
If a man said any of the above things to me, I'd open up a short, but sincere conversation with him about it and see if we could resolve the issue in a mutually respectful way.
- C.
If a man said any of the above things to me, I'd tell him I understand and that I've been feeling the same way. Then I'd end the convo/date/call and not talk to him until he begged his way back into my life for a Saturday Night date.
- D.
If a man said any of the above things to me, I would give him the bird and tell him eff off. Then I'd key his car on my out.
- 5.Men, even men with good characters and high integrity, often use their children as an excuse not to court a woman properly if she breaks TRs or he's not that into her.
- A.
True.
- B.
False.
- 6.If a man you've been doing TRs strictly on and dating for over 3 months doesn't invite you to spend any of the holidays with him because he's already booked a volunteer vacation (before he met you) with his church, then he's probably not planning on marrying you.
- A.
True.
- B.
False.
- 7.If a man you've been doing TRs strictly on and dating for over 3 months doesn't give you jewelry for the holidays, Valentine's Day or your birthday, then he could still be totally into you and planning on marrying you and you should just keep dating him and give him some more time.
- A.
True.
- B.
False.
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