Have You Been The Victim Of A First Tier Runner Or Blocker?

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Relationship Quizzes & Trivia

Assuming that you have had (or believe you've had) a First Tier relationship, this quiz will determine if you've been the victim of a Runner or Blocker. . . A combination of both. . . Or neither.


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    IF YOUR EX-PARTNER HAS MET SOMEONE ELSE :
    • A. 

      You are sad/jealous/hurt, but you know that despite your intense connection you couldn't make it work

    • B. 

      You don't really care, in retrospect you didn't really have that great a connection anyway

    • C. 

      It doesn't really bother you, you know that he/she is only with that person because they couldn't deal with the intensity you shared with each other, you see the other person as your former partner's "safe option"

    • D. 

      You are sad/jealous/hurt but know that he or she will have the same trouble in his/her new relationship because he/she could never fully accept or give love on a real level

    • E. 

      You are sad/jealous/hurt, but you know that your partner will have the same trouble opening up to them, and most likely, your partner started dating them because they were just a "safe" alternative anyway

  • 2. 
    BEFORE YOUR RELATIONSHIP ENDED, YOU FELT STRONGLY:
    • A. 

      That your partner loved you with the same intensity that you loved them but you got the feeling that they were very uncomfortable with the level of connection you shared

    • B. 

      That your partner's past relationships had been more intense than yours, and you could never really live up to that standard

    • C. 

      That you and your partner were both intensely connected in a way your partner had perhaps never experienced but your partner could not express or accept the way they felt about you

    • D. 

      That you and your partner were intensely connected and you both gave everything you could to the relationship but there just wasn't enough holding it together

    • E. 

      That your partner loved you intensely but they could not let you in completely, and you always sensed that they were freaked out by the relationship

  • 3. 
    HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT THE ENDING OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP?
    • A. 

      It ripped my heart out, we never even got a chance to explore the powerful connection we had

    • B. 

      It was terribly sad, we had such an intense connection but couldn't overcome the other obstacles in the relationship

    • C. 

      The ending was hard but, in retrospect, there was something wrong with the way we connected, we never really "got" each other

    • D. 

      Frustrated! I sensed that we could have connected on a really deep level but he or she never let me in

    • E. 

      Frustrated that my partner never opened up fully, and devestated that he/or she left so abruptly

  • 4. 
    THROUGHOUT YOUR RELATIONSHIP, YOUR PARTNER WAS:
    • A. 

      Frequently negative regarding the future of your relationship, regardless of the fact that you were obviously crazy about each other, and often expressed such sentiments to each other

    • B. 

      Self-protective and guarded, even though you instinctively felt that your partner was as in love with you as you were with them

    • C. 

      Receptive, open and generous, except towards the end of the relationship, after many issues and resentments had accumulated

    • D. 

      My partner's demeanor was not that important to me because I didn't feel intensly connected to him or her anyway

    • E. 

      Negative about the future of the relationship, self-protective and guarded throughout, even though you sensed that a perfect connection lay just below the surface

  • 5. 
    YOUR RELATIONSHIP:
    • A. 

      Ended abruptly, without warning, and without a valid explanation, regardless of the fact that you and your partner still made each other extremely happy up until the end

    • B. 

      Tapered off slowly after many discussions and attempts to save the relationship because you and your partner both knew that you had something rare that you may never find again

    • C. 

      Ended abruptly or tapered off but in retrospect the connection was never really right

    • D. 

      Was forced to end by you because your partner was never able to open up or fully connect with you on a deep level, even though you knew they loved you the same way you loved them

    • E. 

      Ended upruptly, without explanation but you're partner would never fully let you in anyway so it was probably for the best

  • 6. 
    IF YOU MET UP WITH YOUR EX-PARTNER NOW(OR YEARS FROM NOW, DEPENDING ON HOW LONG IT'S BEEN SINCE YOU BROKE UP), YOU WOULD:
    • A. 

      Feel the same essential connection to them, despite the years apart

    • B. 

      Probably have nothing in common, or have much to say to each other, the connection you shared felt temporary

    • C. 

      Feel the same essential connection to them but remember how hard it was to get them to open up to the special connection you shared

    • D. 

      Feel the same essential connection to them but would realize that they aren't capable of sustaining an intense and real relationship

    • E. 

      Feel the same essential connection but would know that the relationship was doomed and will never have a chance

  • 7. 
    IF YOU COULD WRITE A LETTER TO YOUR FORMER PARTNER, IT WOULD BEGIN:
    • A. 

      Dear ________, I wish you hadn't left me, we had so much more to do and explore together, the possibilities were endless . . .

    • B. 

      Dear ________, I am so glad we shared all that we did, I will probably never feel the same about someone else, I wish we could have made it work but we just had too many differences . . .

    • C. 

      Dear ________, I know you felt as strongly about me as I did about you, I just wish that you could have let me in

    • D. 

      Dear ________, it was good knowing you but I don't even feel like we connected very deeply. In fact, your memory is already fading.

    • E. 

      Dear ________, I know you loved me but you never let me in, and then you just left without explanation

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