The Gentleman List- What's Your Grade?

38 Questions | Total Attempts: 46

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The Gentleman List- What

A test based off of a compiled list of qualities a gentleman should posess.  It only i effective if you answer honestly. Take this test for you (or if you're a girl take it for someone you know well) 


Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Click what applies closest to you
    • A. 

      I take around 5 minutes a day on styling my hair

    • B. 

      I take less than 2 minutes on my hair, it's brush and go every day.

    • C. 

      I shower every day for more than 15 minutes, sometimes multiple times a day

    • D. 

      I shower at least every other day

    • E. 

      I shower less than every other day

    • F. 

      I spend time thinking about wat i will wear. I know what i like and put effort into my own style. I also iron my clothing.

    • G. 

      I wear what's bought for me, and wear what's clean. I don't iron. If its wrinkly so what.

  • 2. 
    I have clean and clear speech. I rarely (if not ever) swear or use rude words.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 3. 
    I have no facial hair (it's always clean shaven) or i keep the facial hair i have well groomed.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 4. 
    I'm respectful to those who are in positions of responsibility. But even those who are not I show respect for and give credit for their positive qualities. I don't need to put people down.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 5. 
    I am respectful towards girls. I don't make uncomfortable/ perverted comments towards them. Even when I'm with my guy friends I encourage them to show respect for girls mentioned and not speak inappropriately of them.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 6. 
    I often stare at girls i find attractive. Whether it's one or many. My eyes usually follow them and not just for a moment.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 7. 
    I like kids. I may even want some of my own. I help sisters with children and take time to play around/ hold the children in the congregation.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 8. 
    In the congregation I want to reach out because:
    • A. 

      I'd like to be useful, and i'm working on myself so if Jehovah will allow me to be used i'd like to be an encouraging influence in the congregation. If i haven't been given privileges yet i know its because i can still improve.

    • B. 

      Because it's always been my goal. Being a servant or an elder would show evidence that i'm spiritual. I'm not a servant yet, but i don't know why, i think the elders just haven't been paying attention that all that i do.

    • C. 

      I don't want to reach out

  • 9. 
    Ideally I would like to
    • A. 

      Work part-time and pioneer

    • B. 

      Work full time, my wife can pioneer

    • C. 

      Have a wife who makes good money too

  • 10. 
    My spiritual routine includes (check those that apply best)
    • A. 

      Service every saturday, and at least once a wk other than saturday. I comment 2 or more times at meeting. I study all of my material for meetings. I make all of the meetings.

    • B. 

      I go in service on saturday, maybe 2 or 3 hours. I go to most of the meetings, and when i've studied I'll comment at least once.

    • C. 

      I go to meetings as long as i don't work. I sometimes read a scripture at meetings. Saturdays are nice to sleep in. But i know i should go out more on saturdays.

  • 11. 
    When someone in the congregation has a problem with me I....
    • A. 

      Tell the brothers that i think that person has a problem with me... I listen to their advice to talk to the person. I go to talk with the person to let them know why they shouldn't have a problem with me. Whatever reason they had must have been wrong, they misunderstood whatever happened.

    • B. 

      Go to the person. Even if I don't really understand why they're upset, or I feel like they misunderstood me, I realize they have feelings too. I apologize for them having to feel bad. I do whatever I can to help dissolve the problem. Even if I don't totally agree. ( All things are lawful...but not all things are advantageous).

    • C. 

      I talk to my friends about the situation. They know what that person is like. They know I'm not like that. I feel better knowing I'm right, so I decide not to talk to them.

  • 12. 
    I'm outgoing and friendly. If i'm shy i still go out of my box if it means i can make others more at ease. I politely carry on conversation to the best of my ability.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 13. 
    I think I am...
    • A. 

      Doing awesome, everyone likes me, I'm really helpful and any girl would see that in me

    • B. 

      Working hard at becoming a better person, I make friends pretty easily and those who know me well like me.

    • C. 

      No one likes me, i don't think girls would like me either. No one really understands how hard it is to be me.

  • 14. 
    I present myself with confidence. A firm handshake and good eye contact.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 15. 
    I don't burp, fart, or pick my nose in public if i can help it.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 16. 
    I think that...
    • A. 

      I deserve to get what i want. Because i exist. My parents give me everything and it doesn't bother me. And that girl who didn't like me, she just doesn't see my potential. She'll change her mind.

    • B. 

      I need to pay for my own things. Even if my parents are willing to give it to me, it bothers me relying on them or using their money that i havn't worked for. I hope the girl i like will like me back. I wonder what i could do to impress her.

    • C. 

      People understand i can't afford to eat out. So when they invite me i know they plan on paying for me. They enjoy my friendship enough that I am confident they feel it's worth the cost.

  • 17. 
    Girls are not objects or posessions. They are people. They have opinions too and can make their own choices.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 18. 
    If i'm invited to a semi-formal gathering i think....
    • A. 

      Jeans will be good enough. If i wear a dress shirt it'll at least keep my mom or sister from yelling at me. I MIGHT wear dress shoes, but my nikes are sooo comfortable.

    • B. 

      I have a good idea of what i'd like to wear. I just got this new dress shirt, and my sister showed me a tie i could buy that goes with it. I'm excited to go, I look better in dress clothes anyways.

    • C. 

      I'm refusing to go.

  • 19. 
    When i'm out with friends I pay for...
    • A. 

      Myself

    • B. 

      Myself and the girl i'm interested in

    • C. 

      Others too when i can, i pick up the tab with friends cuz i know they've allways got my back too.

  • 20. 
    I treat my sister nicely. Just ask her! Even her friends think that.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 21. 
    I don't love going to work. But when it's all said and done i'm proud of a job well done.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 22. 
    I complain...
    • A. 

      When I'm in pain. Or if i see something that's blatantly wrong.

    • B. 

      2-5x's a day at least.

    • C. 

      More than 5x's a day

  • 23. 
    I have cried/ been really upset within the past 3 months. But i didn't let what happened keep me from moving forward.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 24. 
    I like talking, and listening.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

  • 25. 
    I remember when people have told me about something. Because i was listening carefully.
    • A. 

      True

    • B. 

      False

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