What Are The Odds That You Will Get Divorced?

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What Are The Odds That You Will Get Divorced?

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Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Do either you or your spouse currently have bitterness or resentment toward the other that seems to have been around for some time?
    • A. 

      YES. MOST OF THE TIME.

    • B. 

      WE SELDOM CARRY BITTERNESS TOWARD EACH OTHER.

    • C. 

      WE NEVER HOLD RESENTMENT TOWARD EACH OTHER.

  • 2. 
    How often do you spend time each week in constructive communication and interaction with each other?
    • A. 

      RARELY. BETWEEN KIDS, JOBS, ETC. THERE IS LITTLE TIME LEFT FOR US.

    • B. 

      OCCASIONALLY

    • C. 

      ALMOST EVERY DAY

  • 3. 
    When you think of your history with your mate, are the memories more positive or negative?
    • A. 

      MOST ARE POSITIVE

    • B. 

      MOST ARE NEGATIVE

  • 4. 
    When you talk about your mate to other people, is it primarily positive or negative?
    • A. 

      NEGATIVE

    • B. 

      POSITIVE

  • 5. 
    Is your sex life closer to being intimate and connecting or more towards missing the mark?
    • A. 

      INTIMATE AND PASSIONATE

    • B. 

      MISSING THE MARK

  • 6. 
    Do either of you currently have intimate feelings or desires towards someone outside your marriage?
    • A. 

      YES. BUT IT IS JUST EMOTIONAL.

    • B. 

      YES. IT HAS GOTTEN PHYSICAL.

    • C. 

      NO

  • 7. 
    Do either of you have a really hard time letting go of past hurts?
    • A. 

      IT IS VERY HARD TO LET GO

    • B. 

      IT IS OCCASIONALLY A PROBLEM

    • C. 

      IT IS EASY TO GET OVER STUFF

  • 8. 
    Do either of you hide your emails, phone calls, passwords or texts from the other or do either of you keep secrets from the other?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 9. 
    When your spouse touches or kisses you do you find it?
    • A. 

      ANNOYING

    • B. 

      PLEASANT

    • C. 

      INDIFFERENT

  • 10. 
    Do each of you consider your mate your best friend?
    • A. 

      NO

    • B. 

      YES

    • C. 

      I'M NOT SURE THAT WE BOTH DO.

  • 11. 
    Do you both believe that you and your mate have the capacity to grow and change?
    • A. 

      NOTHING EVER SEEMS TO CHANGE

    • B. 

      WE HAVE HOPE THAT WE CAN WORK THINGS OUT

  • 12. 
    Has either of you fallen out of love for the other?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 13. 
    When either of you attempts to end the fight and make up by accepting responsibility, apologizing or other, is the attempt accepted?
    • A. 

      YES, MOST OF THE TIME THAT WILL END THE FIGHT

    • B. 

      YES, BUT IT TAKES A WHILE TO FEEL CLOSE AGAIN

    • C. 

      NO, WE SEEM TO KEEP FIGHTING

  • 14. 
    When you fight, is it primarily to complain about a situation, or to criticize your mate?
    • A. 

      CRITICIZE MY MATE

    • B. 

      COMPLAIN ABOUT A SITUATION

    • C. 

      SOMETHING ELSE

  • 15. 
    How motivated are the both of you to save the marriage and make it work?
    • A. 

      WE ARE BOTH VERY MOTIVATED TO MAKE THINGS WORK

    • B. 

      ONE OF US IS NOT VERY MOTIVATED

    • C. 

      NEITHER US OF ARE VERY MOTIVATED.

  • 16. 
    Do either of you have trust issues that are effecting the relationship?
    • A. 

      WE BOTH TRUST EACH OTHER

    • B. 

      ONE OF US DOESN'T TRUST THE OTHER

    • C. 

      NEITHER OF US TRUST THE OTHER

  • 17. 
    Does it seem that only one of you apologizes and that the other one rarely admits that they are wrong?
    • A. 

      WE BOTH APOLOGIZE TO EACH OTHER FREQUENTLY

    • B. 

      IT SEEMS THAT ONLY ONE OF US EVER APOLOGIZES

  • 18. 
    After you have an argument, how long does it take for you two to feel like the issue is behind you and everyone is forgiven. 
    • A. 

      WE HARDLY EVER MOVE PAST AN ARGUMENT

    • B. 

      IT MAY TAKE A WHILE, BUT WE GET THERE