Zzz Marriage Test

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Zzz Marriage Test

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Questions and Answers
  • 1. 
    Do either you or your spouse currently have bitterness or resentment towards the other?
    • A. 

      YES, A LOT

    • B. 

      JUST A LITTLE

    • C. 

      NONE

  • 2. 
    Has either one of you lost respect for the other?
    • A. 

      NEITHER OF US RESPECTS THE OTHER, WE TOLERATE EACH OTHER

    • B. 

      SOMETIMES WE DISRESPECT THE THINGS THAT THE OTHER DOES

    • C. 

      WE RESPECT EACH OTHER EVEN IF WE DISAGREE

  • 3. 
    Would you say that either of you dislikes the other, even though you may still love them?
    • A. 

      MOST OF THE TIME

    • B. 

      SOMETIMES

    • C. 

      NEVER

  • 4. 
    Has the man in the relationship been able to financially support the marriage successfully?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 5. 
    How often do you spend time each week in constructive communication and interaction with each other?
    • A. 

      RARELY. BETWEEN KIDS, JOBS, ETC. THERE IS LITTLE TIME LEFT FOR US.

    • B. 

      OCCASIONALLY

    • C. 

      ALMOST EVERY DAY

  • 6. 
    When you think of your spouse and the things you have been through, are the memories more positive or negative?
    • A. 

      POSITIVE

    • B. 

      NEGATIVE

    • C. 

      ABOUT EVEN

  • 7. 
    When you talk about your mate to other people, is it primarily positive or negative?
    • A. 

      NEGATIVE

    • B. 

      POSITIVE

  • 8. 
    While every couple has their bad moments, would you say that your dominant feeling, when you are with your mate, is one of good will or bad will?
    • A. 

      GOOD WILL

    • B. 

      BAD WILL

    • C. 

      IT DEPENDS ON WHAT THEY ARE DOING

  • 9. 
    As a general rule, when your spouse walks in the room are you more likely to be glad to see them or have feelings of dread?
    • A. 

      USUALLY GLAD

    • B. 

      USUALLY DREAD

    • C. 

      DEPENDS ON THE DAY

  • 10. 
    Is your sex life closer to being intimate and connecting or more towards missing the mark?
    • A. 

      INTIMATE AND PASSIONATE

    • B. 

      MISSING THE MARK

  • 11. 
    Do either of you currently have intimate feelings or desires towards someone outside your marriage?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 12. 
    Are either of you currently struggling with any type of addictive behavior?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 13. 
    Do either of you watch porn movies more than once per month?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

    • C. 

      LIMITED NUDITY IN R RATED MOVIES

  • 14. 
    Do either of you suffer from any type of mental disorders that cause conflicts in your marriage?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

    • C. 

      YES, BUT IT DOESN'T HURT OUR RELATIONSHIP

  • 15. 
    Do either of you have a really hard time letting go of past hurts?
    • A. 

      VERY HARD TO LET GO

    • B. 

      OCCASIONALLY A PROBLEM

    • C. 

      EASY FOR US TO GET OVER STUFF

  • 16. 
    Do either of you have feelings of disgust towards the other person?
    • A. 

      FREQUENTLY

    • B. 

      NEVER

    • C. 

      ONCE IN A WHILE

  • 17. 
    Are your faith based beliefs close to the same or very different?
    • A. 

      CLOSE

    • B. 

      IRRELEVANT

    • C. 

      VERY DIFFERENT

  • 18. 
    Do either of you hide your emails, phone calls, passwords or texts from the other?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 19. 
    Are either of you physically or verbally abusive in your relationship?
    • A. 

      ONCE IN A WHILE

    • B. 

      RARELY

    • C. 

      NEVER

  • 20. 
    When your spouse touches you, do you find it annoying?
    • A. 

      FREQUENTLY

    • B. 

      NEVER

    • C. 

      ONCE IN A WHILE

  • 21. 
    Do each of you consider your mate your best friend?
    • A. 

      NO

    • B. 

      YES

    • C. 

      I'M NOT SURE THAT WE BOTH DO.

  • 22. 
    Do you both believe that your mate has the capacity to grow and change?
    • A. 

      THERE IS VERY LITTLE HOPE LEFT

    • B. 

      THERE IS SOME HOPE LEFT

  • 23. 
    Do either of you seem to have a constant negative attitude towards the other?
    • A. 

      FREQUENTLY

    • B. 

      ONCE IN A WHILE

    • C. 

      NEVER

  • 24. 
    Has either of you fallen out of love for the other?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

  • 25. 
    When either of you attempts to end the fight and make up, is the attempt accepted?
    • A. 

      YES, THAT WILL END THE FIGHT

    • B. 

      NO, WE USUALLY KEEP FIGHTING

    • C. 

      YES, BUT IT TAKES A WHILE TO FEEL CLOSE AGAIN

  • 26. 
    Do you and your spouse get defensive when you fight?
    • A. 

      YES, MOST OF THE TIME

    • B. 

      YES, BUT NOT THAT OFTEN

    • C. 

      RARELY

  • 27. 
    Have either of you shut down their hearts toward the other or feel like giving up?
    • A. 

      YES

    • B. 

      NO

    • C. 

      SOMETIMES

  • 28. 
    When you fight, is it primarily to complain about a situation, or to criticize your mate?
    • A. 

      CRITICIZE MY MATE

    • B. 

      COMPLAIN ABOUT A SITUATION

  • 29. 
    Do your fights begin harsh - with angry, accusatory or sarcastic words or soft - with good will mixed with hurt and heartfelt complaints?
    • A. 

      SOFT

    • B. 

      HARSH

  • 30. 
    Do either of you withdraw or check out, as if the other person doesn't exist?
    • A. 

      OFTEN, I HATE IT WHEN WE FIGHT

    • B. 

      NEVER, I GO THE DISTANCE

    • C. 

      ONCE IN A WHILE, BUT IT IS RARE