I have compassion for Automobiles and I dig the fast pace while I ride or drive.
A. Boaz, Mechanical Engineer, Diploma in Mechanical Engineering, Atlanta, Georgia
Answered Nov 04, 2019
Some people are lucky because they almost always see the silver lining in the situations that they are in. Some become pessimistic over time because they do not want to expect too much. They may feel that their expectations will not do anything good for them.
The first thing that you can do to stop being pessimistic is to get rid of the negativity in your life. When you think that you are in a negative situation, try to find ways on how you can break free from it. You need to stop overestimating and overthinking everything that is happening in your life right now. You also need to know to choose your battles. There are some that are not worth fighting.
There are some people who are born pessimists. If you know that you are also a pessimist, you can always change your mindset so that you can see a positive change in your life. It has always been said that you attract what you think about. If you would always think positive, you may also attract more positive things to come your way. The first thing that you can do is to get rid of the negative things in your life. Quit doing things that will make you feel negative.
If you need to remove toxic people from your life, do it too. Your life will become much lighter that way. You can stop making a big deal of things that do not really matter. You can become more negative if you are triggered by the smallest things all the time. Lastly, you should learn how to be grateful. You may have some blessings that you are taking for granted because you are focusing too much on the negative.