A lot of things happen when you are in love with someone. While love is an essential factor in a relationship, it might negatively affect your relationship if you are taking your actions or behaviors towards your partner to the extreme.
In fact, the effects of this might be taking a serious toll on you, and you will not feel it because those actions and behaviors are being exhibited unconsciously. One of the things you will notice is that you are ready to do anything that will save your relationship at any cost regardless of whatever is happening between you and your partner. You wouldn't mind even if your partner is an abuser.
At times, things like this happen when you are seriously benefiting from the relationship. Another sign is that you always give up your wills in order to please your partner. You easily agree to whatever your partner wants, even if they are to your own detriment.
To know whether you are becoming more obsessed with your partner is very easy to spot. The first thing you will notice is that you can't control yourself over him/her; like you literally find yourself thinking about your partner almost every time. Another feeling you will be having is for the person to stay beside you constantly. Let me ask you a question. Have you ever caught yourself stalking your partner on the social media? If your answer is yes, definitely, you are becoming more obsessed with your partner.
The feeling is easy to understand like you want to know if your partner is online so you can start chatting. And when it seems like your partner is not replying on time, you fire getting very uneasy and paranoid. Another thing you will begin to notice is that you are not always happy whenever another opposite sex is around your partner. Finally, while being obsessed with your partner might be a good thing; at least it shows you care so much about the person. However, it should be done with caution.