Should I get a divorce if my spouse is cheating on me with her best - ProProfs Discuss
Topics
Products
Follow Us:

Should I get a divorce if my spouse is cheating on me with her best friend?

Asked by I. Klose, Last updated: Aug 04, 2020

+ Answer
Request

2 Answers

O. Bickis

Get immense pleasure in traveling and writing about visiting places.

O. Bickis, Corporate employee, MBA, Stockton

Answered Jan 17, 2019

Only you can truly say a divorce is best for you after finding out your spouse cheated on you with your best friend, no one else can make the decision for you. I know you feel betrayed because two of the most important people in your life have done the unthinkable.

Only you can truly say a divorce is best for you after finding out your spouse cheated on you with

If your desire is to save your marriage, I urge you to do so. Do not let your emotions determine what happens to your marriage.

But if you have made up your mind that a divorce is what you need, you will fare better during the process if you do not allow your emotions to guide your decisions.

 

J. Harty

Have keen interest in writing, traveller by heart.

J. Harty, Writer, M.A, Chula Vista

Answered Jan 10, 2019

Not necessarily. You must get to a point where you can discuss the events calmly with your partner, despite your natural upset. You need to find what prompted the affair and whether it was a momentary impulse that got out of hand, like an unexpected seduction from a more prestigious person, or whether there is such a gap in satisifaction in your marriage that your partner is seeking what s/he needs emotionally or physically elsewhere.

Alternatively, is cheating part of your partner's personality - an excitement from acting like this? These matters will inform you whether the marriage can be salvaged with work on both sides, or whether divorce would be the best answer.

 

Search for Google images
Select a recommended image
Upload from your computer
Search for Google images
Select a recommended image
Upload from your computer
Search for Google images
Select a recommended image
Upload from your computer

Email Sent
We have sent an email to your address "" with instructions to reset your password.