How fast do you make Friends?

I do not make friends easily or quickly. I take my time to study a person. First, I try to understand their personality, are they positive or negative minded. This is very important for me as I do not want negative energy around me. Then I look for the common interest that I share with the person.

This can be career-wise, relating to beliefs, plans, and lifestyle, and so on. After studying this person and I make up my mind to be friends with the person. Naturally, the friendship begins to grow, and as time pass, we know each other better, and we become great friends.

I will often look for things I have in common with someone, and I focus on that first, and when I find something, I have in common with the person I will frequently have no trouble expanding upon that foundation. I also like to compliment people about something unusual that I see in them, or something that makes me feel drawn to them, such as something unique like red hair or a pretty dress. Friends are a lot easier to make if you are an open and friendly person, which I am. I would not say making friends is fast for me, but it is worth the effort.