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What should I do if I have a crush on my best friend?


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Rashel Quinn

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Rashel Quinn, i am always up to date and i like twilight, Lawyer, London, Untied Kingdom

Answered on Dec 07, 2018

Warning my comments are long cuz I get real

It’s really easy to start to like each other, and the feelings can come out ofnowhere!Every guy-girl relationship, one of them wonders about something more than friendship.

When that happens, you need to ask yourself some questions. The answer is different for each person, but here are some questions that I hope may help you figure out what to do.

1. Do I like this person?

We can develop feelings for almost anyone. So I would suggest that you dig in deep into your feelings and speculate as to why you like them.

2. How long have I liked this person?

Feelings may come go. Is it someoneyou've genuinely admired for a long time? Sometimes these feelings are just a rush of uncontrolled emotions.

3. What do my friends and parents think of this person?

Ask your friends and parents if they think it would be wise for you to pursue a relationship with your friend. It's good to get advice from people that care about you.

If you decide you want to let your friend know that you like him or her:

try to do so in a no-pressure situation. Be honest and straightforward about how you feel, but don’t put any pressure on your friend.

If you decide to stay “just friends”:

This is where it’s important to guard your heart and mind. Stay careful and don't flow away in your feelings.

mariyah

Mariyah

Answered on Nov 20, 2018

Just talk to the person.

pascal wafula muchnoji

Pascal wafula muchnoji

Answered on Nov 12, 2018

Incase that happens,,,the best thing is to share with her,because she/he comprehends you better.dont fear talk.

alyse Lupo

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Alyse Lupo

Replied on Nov 13, 2018

That same thing is happening to me to.He likes me too,but just incase he/she doesn't don't be afraid to be near them.Let alone TALK to them!!!

pascal wafula muchnoji

Pascal wafula muchnoji

Answered on Nov 12, 2018

Incase that happens,,,the best thing is to share with her,because she/he comprehends you better.dont fear talk.

R. Glover

R. Glover, Editor, New York City

Answered on Jul 24, 2018

It can be hard when you suddenly realize that you have a crush on your best friend. It can make you feel a bit uncomfortable especially if you know that your crush does not think of you the same way. You have two options. The first option is you are not going to say anything about it. You will just care for your best friend from a distance.

The second option is you will let your best friend know about it so that you will know what your best friend’s feelings for you are too. If your best friend tells you that he/she does not feel the same way, then you have to accept that. You both have the option to continue the friendship or not.

J.Spencer

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J.Spencer, Knowledge enthusiast, Tokyo

Answered on Jul 11, 2018

You have placed yourself in a minefield. Having a crush on your best friend is a very dangerous territory. The best advice I can give you, based on my personal experience, is to suppress the crush. Forget about it, keep them as friends and move on. There is only a 1% chance that this endeavor succeeds. It’s not worth losing a friend over.

But if the crush on your best friend is serious, I would say that you should tell them how you feel and make the next move based on their reaction. If they do not reciprocate the feeling, ask them to bear with you while you move on from them and apologize. I know it’s stupid to apologize to a best friend but it's necessary for your own uncontrollable heart. Assure your friend that you will be fine and might require their help to move on. Tell them that you won’t let this come between their friendship. I know it seems a bit dramatic but as I told you before it's easier this way. Your friendship with them will change because of it, but eventually, it’ll get alright.

If you happen to stumble upon the rare chance in which they do reciprocate the feeling, then my friend, you are in Candyland. There is a third thing you can do. Hide your crush from them. Non-reaction is also a path you can take in this situation and wait until the crush fades.

Mike John

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Mike John

Replied on Jul 12, 2018

If you have a crush with your best friend then you should share with her/him & if she/he accepts your offer then this relationship will run forever because your partner already knows all-thing about yours.

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