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what are the dimensions of intimacy?
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physical, intellectual, emotional, and shared activities
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describe the physical dimension of intimacy.
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a closeness that develops in a physical way, for example, the fetus in a mother's womb.
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describe the intellectual dimension of intimacy
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a closeness that develops from an exchange of important ideas that form relational bonds.
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describe the emotional dimension of intimacy
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a closeness that develops from sharing personal information.a
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describe the shared activities dimension of intimacy
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a closeness that develops from experiencing significant events together and spending time together.
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describe the typical female intimacy style
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more likely to share information, they enjoy personal talk, express caring directly, and its...
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describe the typical male intimacy style
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more a sharing of activities rather than talking, they enjoy helping each other perform tasks,...
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Why are gender roles important in intimacy styles?
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it is possible for a man to have a feminine style of intimacy, just as it is possible for a...
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what is a collectivist culture's view on intimacy? (such as in Taiwan or Japan)
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they have different ways of communicating with people, their "in-groups" and "out-groups",...
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what is a individualist culture's view on intimacy? (such as in America and Australia)
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make less of a distinction between personal relationships and casual ones, they are more likely...
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why does relational intimacy develop more quickly through computer-mediated communication than...
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relative anonymity of chat rooms and blogs provides freedom of expression that might not happen...
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why is it impossible to have an intimate relationship with every one?
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there isn't enough time and energy; those who only seek intimate relationships will place little...
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what is self-disclosure?
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it is the process of deliberately revealing information about oneself that is significant and...
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what is the first dimension of self-disclosure?
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breadth: the range of subjects being discussed.
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what is the second dimension of self-disclosure?
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depth: the shift of relatively impersonal messages to more personal ones. how much one is willing...
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what are the types of depth self-disclosure information we share?
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clichés, facts, opinions, and feelings
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what are clichés, and how are they used during self-disclosure?
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ritualized, stock responses to social situations...they can serve as codes for messages we...
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Catharis, reciprocity, self-clarification, self-validation, identity management, relationship...
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Benefits of Self Disclosure
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Rejection, Negative impression, decrease in rational satisfaction, loss of influence, and hurting...
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Risks of self disclosure
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Name some of the guidelines you should follow when deciding when and how much personal information...
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1. Do you have a moral obligation to disclose?
2. Is the other person important to you?
3....
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What are the alternatives to self disclosure?
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1. silence
2. lying
3. equivocating
4. hinting
5. the ethics of evasion
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What are the reasons for lying?
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1. To save face so you can prevent embarrassment.
2. To avoid tension or conflict.
3. To...
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What is the difference between equivicating and hinting?
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Hints are more direct than equivocal statements, whereas an equivocal statement isn't necessarily...
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According to Blink, what is thin slicing?
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The ability of our unconscious to find patterns in situations and behavior based on very narrow...
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True or false? If Gottman analyzes an hour of a husband and wife talking he can perdict with...
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True!
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According to Blink what does SPAFF stand for and what is it?
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Specific Affect. It is a coding system that has twenty seperate categories corresponding to...
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What is the big five inventory?
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1.Extraversion
2. Agreeableness
3. Conscientousness
4. Emotional Stability
5. Openness...
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